They’re done with us as soon as they hit 30

The most attractive woman I ever meet was a Swedish girl I met in school a few years ago. She was the kind of woman who could have dated anyone. She had long blonde hair, piercing blue eyes, a supermodel figure. She was very intelligent too.<br><br>She said one day that she wanted to be with me since the day she met me. She had done a lot of research about me before we even met. She was super in to me. She had a whole bunch of things in common with me as well. We would spend all day talking about movies, TV, video games, music, you name it, we would talk about it.<br><br>She had watched every show I watched, played every game I’ve played. She was the only woman who was as into horror movies as I was. We were on the same wavelength. She could finish my sentences for me. We could read each other’s minds.<br><br>She said one day that she was so in to me that she was considering dropping out of school to be with me. I was floored. I had no idea a woman could be this in to me. She was still in school here, she was still young, but said she was so in to me that she was willing to leave everything behind for me. I was on cloud 9.<br><br>Well, we were together for just over a year, until she left the country. We still keep in contact, but she got a career, and is about to be 30.<br><br>She said a few months ago that she’s not attracted to me anymore, but that she’s still in love with me. I was confused, and asked her what that meant, and she said that at the age of 30, a woman is no longer attracted to men, but rather only to relationships. She said that a woman at her age is not concerned about the quality of the man anymore, just that he’s a nice guy.<br><br>I asked her if that meant that she would rather be with a nice guy who is ugly, than with a bad boy who is hot. She said yes. I was stunned. I had no idea that was how women saw things. She said that they’re no longer concerned with the quality of the man, but rather just want a man to provide for them at that age. She said that women don’t need men for sex anymore because vibrators exist.<br><br>I asked her if she was concerned that she was no longer attracted to men anymore, and she said no, that it’s completely normal for women to no longer be attracted to men after they’ve hit 30. She said she could still be in a relationship with a man at 30, she just wasn’t going to be attracted to him. She said she could be in a happy relationship with a man even if she wasn’t attracted to him.<br><br>I asked her if she thought this put men at a disadvantage, and she said yes. She said men are still attracted to women at any age, but at 30, women are not attracted to men anymore, rather they’re attracted to relationships. I asked her if she still found me attractive, and she said no. I asked her why, and she said it’s because she’s 30 now. I asked her if she still thought I was hot, and she said no.<br><br>It was a very eye opening conversation we had. I learned a lot. Women are concerned with the quality of the man until 30, but after 30, they’re just concerned that he’s a good guy. They’re not concerned with the quality of the man anymore, just that he’s a good guy, and that he’s willing to provide for her.<br><br>Women do not need men at 30+ because society has taught them that they don’t need men, and that they can provide for themselves. They say they still need men, but they don’t. As she said, they have vibrators, they don’t need men for sex. They don’t need men for money, because they’re independent. They don’t need men for companionship, because they have their own friends, and their own lives. They don’t need men for anything.<br><br>They still want men though at that age, but it’s purely for ego and status. They want men not because they need them, but simply because they want someone around. It’s purely for their own gratification.<br><br>So yeah. For us young men out there, don’t expect women over the age of 30 to be attracted to us. They’re not. They’ve stopped being attracted to men at that age. They’re still going to want men though.