I (f38) walked in on my daughter (f15) having sex with her boyfriend (m18) and I am still shaken up about it. How would you handle this situation?

I’m 38 years old, I have a teenage daughter who’s almost 16 for context she has a bf he’s 18. He’s nice and respectful and was waiting for her to be sexually active but she ended up asking him if they could do it already as she felt ready.<br><br>They decided to tell me together and at first I was upset honestly. I told her to wait but she told me that she was ready cuz they even went to the doctor to get her on the pill and him to get screened for std’s.<br><br>I was still shook and honestly for a while I didn’t even want to look him in the eye but eventually I felt better about it and even got myself together to talk to her about being safe. I still told her to take things slow and don’t rush into anything and don’t feel pressured. <br><br>Now a couple days ago I went to pick her up from her friends house but she wasn’t there. I get a text from her saying that she was at her bf’s house. I went there and when I walked in on them having sex. She was just laying there on her front doing nothing. So I immediately felt like she was being abused/used. I yelled at both of them left and drove off and still refused to talk to my daughter or her bf.<br><br>My sister came over and she saw how fucked up in the head I was and she told me maybe I overreacted and should see if she’s okay. She said maybe I ruined something special for her. But I felt bad as I don’t want to be the parent that ruins everything for her. I don’t know if I should talk to her and hear what she has to say. I’m currently still healing and not really ready to talk to her or her bf.