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I (25M) am feeling so put down by my GF (24F) and I don’t know why

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I’ve been with my girlfriend for about 6 months. I’ve been having an amazing time with her and I’ve never been happier. She’s the most beautiful woman I’ve ever been with. I love her more than anything.<br><br>One issue I’ve been having recently is that she constantly jokes about how hot she is. She shows off her body to me a lot. She will put on a tight dress or bikini and say something like “Do you like it” to which I will respond “Yes, you look amazing” and she will smile and say something like “I know I’m irresistible”. <br><br>She has also been telling me that my friends find her attractive as well. Which I know is true, a couple of my friends have let me know that they thought she was hot. But all my friends have GFs, so it’s not a big deal that they think she’s hot, I would just expect them to find her attractive.<br><br>But I think things might have gone too far recently. I took her out to a really great restaurant. When we were inside I commented on how good she looked. She laughed, and then looked at a couple of men at nearby tables and said “they obviously agree, just look at them look at me”. She then went on about how she’s a “10” and she’s “a supermodel” and “a goddess” and “I look amazing, you could barely look at me because you can’t handle how hot I am”. I was honestly feeling a bit embarrassed. I would never compliment her this much. I kept trying to change the subject, but she just kept going. She went on like this for about 5 minutes. It honestly made me feel like I wasn’t good enough for her.<br><br>I also feel a little emasculated when I hear her talk about how attractive she is. I don’t really know what to say to her. Should I also go on about how hot I am? I don’t want to be rude to her, so I just kind of let her go on.<br><br>I honestly love her more than anything. I would never want to leave her and she always makes me feel loved. But these small incidents make me feel down.<br><br>What can I do to make her less cocky? I honestly feel like she gets off on making me feel inadequate. Should I stop complimenting her as much? Should I avoid taking her out to places with a lot of men? I just want her to stop. I don’t know what to do.

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