I am a father who is on the verge of losing everything and I need help.

Hey guys, I am in a situation where I’m feeling a bit lynch mobbed. A bit of background, I have 5 children and their mother and I have been together almost 10 years. We have always been Slut Wife/polyamorous. I recently found out that I have been competing with a porn star and I am not okay with that. I recently learned that the porn star has been sexually active with my children. I have since removed my children from the home, I am in the process of getting a divorce. I am considering pressing charges for the sexual abuse. I’m not sure if it’s over or not, I still love the mother of my children.<br><br>I know this sub is against incest and I agree that it isn’t normal and is probably an issue. But I need some help/some advice. I’m not sure if I’m going crazy, I’m feeling a little isolated here and like I’m on island. I really need to talk to some one who understands that the mother/son dynamic in a polyamorous relationship isn’t normal and may be considered weird. She is his mother and I don’t think it could ever be consensual. I have proof of the sexual abuse, the porn star is only 23 years old and my children are 12-17. I’m not sure if I should go ahead and press charges or not. I know that my children have been abused and I don’t want them to have to go through a trial. On the other hand, the mother may use them as her defense. I’m overwhelmed and I’m not sure what to do. But I’m going to stop typing here, I don’t want to make any accusations.