MadMadMad

So far, I have been for the most part very happy in my 9 year relationship with my gf (26f). However, the past week and a half have been an absolute drop in our relationship. About a week and a half ago, she and her friends came over to hang out with me and my roommates. After a while, I went to bed early. As her friends left and she come to bed, she realized she had left her phone in the living room. She went to get it and when she was coming back to bed, she accidentally knocked over a book end. She got frustrated and started yelling at it and screamed loudly that she hated it.<br><br>While that was strange behavior, it wasn’t all that weird for her. She definitely has a temper. She had a really rough childhood. However, after that, it just snowballed into her blowing up at every little thing. The next day, she had a driving test and got really nervous. In her stress, she left the keys in the car when she came home for a few minutes. She got mad at herself for this. Then she snapped a little. She screamed and went all crazy for a few seconds. <br><br>I wasn’t doing well with it, but I was very patient with her about it. I asked her if she was okay? Did she need help? I offered to listen or help out with anything. She kept saying she was fine. Well, she has been doing that pretty much ever since. Just randomly getting really frustrated all the time. She even went out of her way to snap at me for things I didn’t even see coming. For example, I asked her to explain something to me. She said it was “very obvious” and I looked confused. She then snapped at me exclaiming I didn’t even know the very obvious thing. It was like she was trying to make me look stupid.<br><br>I’m very patient with her and I understand she has gone through tough times, but it is getting to the point where I can’t even do anything in my own house without her glaring at me. I confronted her about it a few days ago, but she just said she is fine. However, she didn’t stop snapping at me. <br><br>I want to be supportive of her and I don’t want to push her away; however, I can’t just keep living in a house with a crazy person in it. How would you approach this?