That smile on her face is not because she is in love with you

I'm going to bury this post deep in the depths of this subreddit however it's something that people need to hear. I have dated several women in my life and yes I was always a simp in the beginning.<br><br>- The first time I was head over heels in love. <br><br>I like to call this the "hunny moon phase" where she is the sweetest girl ever. Always has a smile on her face and she always talks to you. This phase lasts for 2-4 months. <br><br>I was 17 back then and was quite foolish. I gave my GF a gift of an expensive gold chain + a brand new car. Back then I was 100% sure she was the one because that smile in her face was the only thing I had in my mind. It has been 4 years ever since and the last time I have seen her was at the court where she lost her case against me. Long story short she was a gold digger and was only in it for the money. <br><br>- The second time I was heartbroken. <br><br>I was a bit wiser back then as I have learned from my mistake. She was a bit older and had several ex boyfriends. She was a lot more experienced than I was after I learned that she was actually a sugar baby. Everything went well for a year until she started to get that look in her eye. She started flirting with other guys in front of me and even started cheating on me with several guys. When confronted about it she just laughed and said that I was too insecure. I dumped her afterwards and blocked her from all my social media accounts. She would go around and tell several of my friends that I was an impotent and said that I couldn't even please her in the bedroom. I was heartbroken since I invested a lot of time into her. This was 2 years ago and I haven't seen her ever since. Last time I heard however she was having debt up to her neck and was struggling to pay for her own house.<br><br>- The third time was a charm or so I thougt. <br><br>I was several months into the relationship and she would give me that smile and would always laugh at my jokes. She was a bit overweight however she was actually a sweet and caring girl. She had a big heart and would do anything to make me happy. I was also several years wiser and have learned from my mistakes. I didn't give her any expensive gifts nor did I bought her anything. She was quite happy with the fact that I was caring and would help her in- and outside of the house. I was also actually a bit more protective in this relationship. I banned her from social media or would tell her not to go to any clubs. She understood and even said that it made her feel special. I was quite happy with my life when the pandemic came. Things started to change when corona started and we started to spend more time together. She gained a lot of weight and was a couple of dress sizes bigger. She would often skip showering and don't even get me started about the smell. She would also spend her days looking at TikTok videos. This was the point where I was losing my patience. I would often come home late because I still needed to work in order to pay for everything. I would come home to a dirty house and she would do nothing but play on her phone. I was stupid enough to give her the keys from my house and was several months into the relationship. Big mistake. She would often invite her friend over which would in my opinion would groom her into being a more manipulative person. When I came home early from work one day I caught her best friend fucking my gf. I was so done that I dumped her and kicked her out. I changed my locks and would block her from all my social media accounts. She went around my town sleep with anyone that she can and would even do 3 somes with best friends in a relationship. Last time I heard she was in a relationship with a guy who beat the shit out of her when she got drunk.<br><br>- This is my 4th relationship. <br><br>Right now I feel like the king of the world. I'm 24 years old now and would say that I'm a lot wiser and a lot more experienced. She is 22 years old and is a student. She was quite in-shape and would spend a lot of her time at the gym. She would always laugh at my jokes and would give me that smile that I have always been looking for. We had a lot of sex and I spend a lot of my free time with her. This was my 3rd month and I was so happy that I was willing to spend big. That was until I came home early one day. She would often go to the library to study but today I have decided to come home early. As soon as I looked through the window I saw her having sex with a guy that was a couple of years older. She had that smile on her face when she was riding him. I was so done with it, I packed my bags and left. I moved and won't tell her about my new address. I have been ignoring her and her family ever since. I felt betrayed and was so angry that I would often go to her house to trash her garden. This was two years ago and it has been 2 years ever since. She was in quite a serious debt ever since. Last time I heard she was working as a prostitute at a high-end club.<br><br><br>I'm 26 years old now and I have learned to be a lot more wiser now. Back then I was a fool. I was blinded by love and would often give them that smile thinking that they would be the one. Never have I ever found anyone that would make me smile like that. I'm quite wealthy now as I have 3 successful businesses and +300-500k in my bank account. I have been in and out of a lot of relationships however I haven't been in a relationship in almost 2 years. I'm so done with relationships and the idea of love. I have learned to hate women and I think I have a bit of misandry. I have also noticed that women don't love you but they would only love your wallet. I'm so done with it and don't have the energy to deal with it. Everytime I see a couple I would often think that the woman was in love with the guy because of his money.<br><br>This is my 2 cents. If you are like me and you would often fall in love with people then you should think twice. Make yourself valuable first before you make that investment in a relationship. Don't be blinded by love and always think with your head. Yes that smile might look good but remember that she is only in love with your wallet.