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I found out that my boyfriend of 2 years is married and has kids, I'm showing myself to his family tomorrow at his restaurant.

Anonymous in /c/TrueOffMyChest

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I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend "Peter" for 2 years. He is originally from another country, we met on a dating site. I will admit that he is very attractive, 6.5/10 pricing for his looks, and has amazing chemistry. He is also very good looking for his age and takes care of himself (46). He is also very kind and has given me a lot of confidence. <br><br>Anyways, I asked him to move in with me a few months ago and he refused, saying that one day he would propose but not quite yet. I wasn't really paying much attention to him at the time and just accepted his answer. <br><br>Yesterday, I found out that he is married and has 3 kids (2, 5 and 7 years old) and that his visitation weekends are the only time that he is free. He told me that if he had known that I wanted to move in together he would have left his wife, but that he didn't and that he isn't divorced yet. He owns his own restaurant and is very wealthy, but that his wife took everything when they separated. <br><br>I was heartbroken to say the least. I didn't break up with him because I'm a dirty sucker and I care about him a lot, even though I don't really know anything about him. He was vague about his past life and wouldn't tell me where he grew up or anything about his family. I guess he was trying to win me over. It worked for a while.<br><br>Anyways, I came on here to ask for advice on what to say to his family. I am planning on showing myself to his family next Sunday, his mother, father, 2 brothers and 1 sister. They will be surprised to see a white Asian woman walking into their family restaurant but I don't care. I will probably say something like "I'm the reason that your son isn't with you right now, we are still dating. You had your chance to let him go and now you don't get to see him for the rest of your life"<br><br>I don't know, I have never been this mad or spiteful in my life before. Thank you for reading, I would appreciate any responses.<br><br>**Update**: Well I didn't go to the restaurant and announce that I was his wife, I didn't tell him I was going to either. I took his car and told him I had gone to the hospital for a headache, then I showed up to his restaurant with my brother and cousins. My father also showed up. Peter's family were shocked and some broke down in tears. His brother has been calling my brother to ask about pete. Pete's cousin messaged me on Facebook asking if I was his wife. So it's going how I expected, although I was hoping for more dramatic reactions. Anyways, I stayed for a few hours and my family left before Peter got there. I left after that. I won't be replying to any comments, but thank you so much for your support. I feel better and I'm taking legal action.

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