How do you guys feel about having no one to pamper you?

Ok, so I just encountered this “independent” woman who claimed that she can do everything by herself and she doesn’t need a man for anything. <br><br>She was working at a gas station, and she was saying how she traded her car in because it was getting a bit old. I was like “Oh ok, it’s time for you to buy a new one.” <br><br>She was like “Nope, our manager said that he would pick me up from my house and drop me off during the week until I get a new car. One of my coworkers also said that he would give me rides on the weekends. I’m pretty sure I’ll be able to manage for a bit.” <br><br>She was also saying how she needs an oil change for her car, but personally she would prefer to go to the Honda dealership to get her car serviced. And that she was going to have her uncle drop off her car for her and have him pick it up because she didn’t want to wait, but was having trouble finding a ride for him to get back home because he doesn’t drive anymore. <br><br>I was like “Ok, well do you have any other male relatives or friends that you can ask for help?” <br><br>She was like “Nope, all my family and friends are really busy with their own lives.”<br><br>I was like “Ok, well it sounds like you kind of need a man in your life.” <br><br>She said “Nope, men and women are equal so I don’t need a man to pamper me or help me out.” <br><br>Then after I was done pumping my gas, I went inside to pay and I saw one of her coworkers; a guy, give her a back massage because she was complaining about being sore. <br><br>My thought was “If men and women are equal, why are you letting a man give you a massage?” <br><br>It just seems like no matter what women say, a lot of them secretly deep down want a man to pamper them and cater to their needs. Is it just me, or do you guys have thoughts on this?<br><br>I know that if I ever get into a relationship with a woman, I need her to acknowledge that men and women are not equal and admit how us men are superior.