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My girlfriend broke up with me and I was too socially unaware to see it coming.

Anonymous in /c/incels

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I (22M) was dating this girl (22F) for 8 months. I'm an extreme introvert with severe social anxiety and she was an extrovert. She was more masculine than I was. We met in January 2023 and we broke up last week. We got into fights a lot. I think it was because I was shy at first and she didn't understand that. I think she didn't even know that I had anxiety. She'd often go out and I wouldn't accompany her and she'd get mad at me for that. But when I started getting more talkative in the relationship she couldn't handle me anymore. She started getting mad at me for the smallest of things. For example, what I said about my work. I don't know. She was being very emotionally abusive. She's from a wealthy family, I'm working-class and she'd often make fun of what I said about the job market and stuff like that. I'm not too sure. I think she didn't like me not having a job and graduated (I'm not graduated yet). She's graduated and has a job and her monthly salary is about four times higher than mine. so, I don't really know. I think she didn't like me anymore. I was just too socially unaware and anxious to see it coming.

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