Some of you are just rude.

It's probably a good idea to get comfortable, this post is intended to inspire a discussion rather than be a rant. First I'd like to say I've been lurking this site for a while now, I do appreciate the message, it's very refreshing to see the lack of dehumanizing of women. However, I've always been very shy in terms of expressing my feelings, because I've had people tell me I shouldn't want to be with someone like me, or that I'll treat them poorly.<br><br>I have a crush on someone, and I was deciding to confess to them. I saw another post where this was a problem, and I thought the advice didn't work for me. I thought, maybe I can get advice. I went to the chat, I was pretty nervous and stressed out, and I went with the same message I used when asking for advice here. I didn't want to do a "hello, how are you?" I wanted to get to the point, and I was worried that if I did that, I'd immediately lose my chance to talk to them.<br><br>I told them I had a crush, and I wanted advice. I was suddenly met with rudeness, I was told I was acting poorly and I should leave. I understand maybe it wasn't the best way to approach it, but I had a bit of confidence afterwards. I thought I could do this. I immediately had it ruined.<br><br>If this person was having a rough day and was angry at me, that's understandable. But there's no reason to be rude. I just think some of you should work on your attitude.