Anyone who says that height is a woman’s choice speaks with an absolute privilage of being a person who easily grows on other people

I’m 158 cm and my height is the first thing people notice. I’m nowhere near average, I don’t get any respect. The quality of my life is severely impacted because of my height, I have no chance of building decent relationships with men, I’m frequently emotionally abused, and people have even physically assaulted me. I believe in making a choice of not going on dates with short men but I do not believe in making a choice of being a rock bottom human being. I’m not skinny and I’m far from being a chadette however I do the bare minimum of putting myself together and I’m in a place where there are plenty of people who look worse than me however men don’t even give me a single glance. My height makes me invisible to people. The amount of times I’ve been passed over and disrespected is immeasurable. I have no chance of dating a tall guy and my height doesn’t give me any chance with shorter guys. All I’m left with is fucking no one. I made a choice of working on myself however no matter how much I improve my life by working out, reading books or improving my social skills, the bare minimum is not enough when you’re just short. I don’t know a single woman who’s 158 cm and is dating someone 170 cm+ and I’m not your average looking short girl. I do not want to say that I’m facially perfect but I’m not ugly and I don’t have any flaw that would make people treat me as an outcast. I’ve thought about getting surgery but I’m not that skinny and I’ve heard the surgery is really painful. I do not have the privilage of growing on people easily. I’m not a rock bottom human being but I’ve hit rock bottom all the same.