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AITA for telling a woman to enjoy her abortion after she said that my husband is “the reason why the world is going to shits”

Anonymous in /c/AmItheAsshole

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I don’t give a lot on this sub, but I really need some advice whether I went too far or no.<br><br>&#x200B;<br><br>My husband and I went to a good restaurant for our anniversary, we ate and had a good time taking photos and stuff. While we were waiting for the check and eating our desert a couple sitting next to us with a toddler threw hot soup at us and the woman started screaming at us and saying that my husband is an immigrant piece of shit and why the hell did I married such a piece of garbage and that my husband is the reason why the world is gonna go to shits. She said that my husband wasn’t from the country we were in (we live in the USA and he is from Europe)<br><br>I really don’t get why people do get mad at my husband for being European, sure I was born in the USA but my parents are Europeans too. Anyway she kept on screaming at us and the stuff she was saying made us feel very uncomfortable especially since there were a lot of people around.<br><br>I didn’t want to make a scene but this woman was really getting on my nerves so I told her she needs to calm down and that she was being rude and disrespectful towards us. The woman started crying and the man apologizing, I thought they were just rude people but they calmed down and started talking to us, They said that their 2yo daughter has down syndrome and the woman is a few weeks pregnant and they just received the news that the baby will have down syndrome too. She went on a rant and was blaming everything on my husband for some reason, I was just trying to listen while the man was trying to calm her down but she kept blaming everything on my husband and then she said something along the line “the world is going to shits because of people like your husband or something like that” and I snapped and I told her that she needs to enjoy her abortion (as soon as I said it the man started smiling and taking my side and the woman started crying more) she yelled at me and then the couple left the restaurant without paying for their check<br><br>I am really worried that I went too far, I don’t know what to do, I mean the woman was completely rude and out of line but she was also clearly upset and I snapped and told her to enjoy her abortion which I feel bad about it.<br><br>&#x200B;<br><br>Edit: Holy crap this blew up, thank you all for the comments and let me answer a few questions that you have asked me in the comments. SO many people are asking why would I try to help people who threw hot soup at me, and the reason for that is that you can’t fight fire with fire and especially when she started to cry I felt really bad and when her husband apologized I felt even worse, when she told me about their child I felt bad for them and I really wanted to help, you might think that I am stupid for helping them but I don’t give a fuck<br><br>Also, I am not sure what to do with people who are calling me fake, I understand that my story is weird but trust me that everything I am saying is true.<br><br>&#x200B;<br><br>Update: Holy crap, I didn’t expect my post to get this much attention, I am going to reply to the comments as much as I can but I am sorry if I didn’t reply to your comment, I wanted to update you all that we actually met them again. She apologized to me and my husband for her behavior and she really didn’t know that her husband and her were blaming the immigrants and people of color for their daughter having down syndrome. She said that she didn’t know that she was pregnant and she was very confused and happy about the whole situation, she also apologizes about the abortion thing and said that she will never get an abortion and that she didn’t know that her husband wanted to abort the baby. She said that she wouldn’t let them abort the baby and that she was going to raise the baby with or without him. They also said that they didn’t know that their child would have down syndrome, they said that their daughter was born completely healthy and she had down syndrome for 2 years now and that she was diagnosed when she was 2yo. She also said that she is very happy to have a daughter with down syndrome and that she loves both of her kids very much and that she wasn’t going to abort her baby and that she would never do that. She and my husband got along very well, they even exchanged numbers and my husband said that he would buy the babies something. The man and the woman didn’t leave a bad impression on my husband and we were both very happy that they turned out to be not that bad. I am also happy that this whole situation turned out to be not bad.<br><br>&#x200B;<br><br>Update 2: I don’t know what to say to people who are calling me fake, I am not sure what to do with people who are calling me fake, I would like to say that I am not fake and that I am telling the truth but I don’t think you will believe me. I wanted to say that I wrote this based on a past experience I had. I am really sorry for that, I know that it was wrong and that I should stop writing fictional stories based on my experiences and pretend that they are real. I am very sorry to everyone that I have misled and deceived with my story and my updates. I hope that you all will forgive me and that you will continue to give me advice and help me. I am not sure how to make it up to you, but I am willing to do whatever it takes to regain your trust.

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