I found out that my boyfriend of 2 years is married and has kids, I'm showing myself to his family tomorrow at his church.

I don't even know what to do, I'm in tears. <br><br>I found out yesterday, I saw his Facebook, and found his profile, his profile has his married status on, and lists him as a father, when I searched for his first and last name one of the results was his Facebook profile, his profile picture is of himself and his wife and their kids, it was confession all for me. <br><br>I clicked on it and it said he was separated and divorced, but married with kids. I searched his first and last name paired with a few different cities in his state and one of the results was an arkive article with his name and addresses listed. One of them was a address for a church in his state, that matched his address. <br><br>I looked at the article and it said that he and his wife had separated from their traditional lifestyle and had two kids together after turning their lives to Christ and got "saved". <br><br>I searched his name paired with the churches name and found three different articles from him giving sermons, leading worship, doing missionary work, and even receiving and award for being a great husband and father. <br><br>I couldn't believe it, I thought I was going crazy, but then I went to his Google Maps location and it showed he's still living with his wife and kids. <br><br>He tells me he's so against divorce and that ex spouses are ex best friends. I don't know how he's had two weddings and is in a relationship with me for two years and nobody noticed, or cared, until I found out and told him I'd post his nudes and info online if he didn't let me leave. Last night he told me he'd pay me $3,000 for some nudes and he'd send me $8,000 tomorrow if I'd left peacefully and never contacted anyone. <br><br>He has all these followers online, and he has a lot of connections, it makes sense how he's managed to keep this hidden, but I'm so sick right now, I'm going to his church tomorrow morning, and am going to show myself to his family and tell them what he's been doing and how much money he's tried to pay me to keep my mouth shut. I'm so sick right now, I'm shaking and I can't stop crying. I don't even know what to do, I feel so dirty.