UPDATE: Wife [28F] and I [28M] decided to try for kids last year. Found out I'm completely infertile without surgery. 5 months later she got pregnant.

First of all, I want to thank everyone who replied to my last post. It was really nice to hear that so many people believed me and was on my side.<br><br>You all gave me the courage to do what I had to do, and here I am .. with some update.<br><br>The first thing I did was take my wife to the OB appointment she had already scheduled. She wasn't surprised when I tagged along. I'm sure she thought I was just going for moral support. The appointment went smoothly, got to hear the heartbeat. The doctor said she was doing well and the baby was healthy. I asked her if it was possible to determine the due date, and she said yes, but the scan would cost some money since our insurance doesn't cover it. I agreed to pay for it.<br><br>After the appointment, I took her to her mother's house and dropped her off. I acted as if nothing was suspicious, and she didn't show any sign of guilt. I'm not good at reading people, but I'm sure a guilty person would act differently.<br><br>I went home, got the money, and returned to the doctor's office. The doctor said it was quite unusual for a husband to want to know the due date so early in the pregnancy. I just told her my reasons and to please keep it a secret from my wife and family.<br><br>She was a very kind and nice person. She told me to come back that evening, and she'd have the report in my hands.<br><br>I picked up the report that evening, and it said the baby was 6 weeks old. I was in shock. My wife and I had been trying to have a kid for almost two years, and then 5 months ago, we were told I was completely sterile. I know it's 1 in a million chance to have a sterile man have a kid, but I had to be sure. So, I decided to get a paternity test done without telling anyone.<br><br>I spent the entire day getting the sample and paperwork ready, and once everything was in order, I called my wife to tell her I had to go to the lab early in the morning and I'd see her at her mom's later.<br>I went to the lab, dropped off the samples, and was told to expect a call from them in 10 days. I came back and picked up my wife from her mom's house and we went back home together.<br><br>Ten days passed and on the 11th day, I got the call I'd been dreading. I was in the car when I got the call, and I was told to come to the lab. I was 100 percent sure the report would be negative, but there was still a small part of me that was being optimistic. But I was wrong, the report clearly stated I was NOT the father of my wife's baby.<br><br>I took the report, left the lab and drove back home. I spent the entire drive home trying to calm myself down. I could feel myself shaking and I was fuming. I didn't know what to do. A part of me wanted to lash out at her, but the other half of me wanted to leave without saying anything.<br><br>I didn't end up doing either. When I got home, I tells her I need to talk to her. She could tell something was wrong by the look on my face. She asked what it was, but I just handed her the lab reports. The look on her face said it all, she knew she had been caught.<br><br>She started to cry and wail, telling me she was sorry and it just happened once. That the guy would never be in the picture and she loves only me, so we could still live happily ever after and that the child would never even know any different.<br><br>I'll be honest, I was expecting this. I've heard stories like mine worthless, lying, cheating cunts do this to their spouses. I responded that I couldn't stay in the marriage. She told me she'd do anything. She offered to let me cheat on her. In the end she offered to let me abuse her. In return that I had to stay.<br><br>I left, got a hotel room. The next day I went to a lawyer, and the lawyer told me to get my mother and sister involved and he'd set up the appointment for later that day.<br><br>I went to Mom's and told her what happened. My sister was there too, and my mom and sister both offered to help.<br><br>I told them to wait. That I wanted to get during the holiday. So everyone had 10 days to stew. My sister wanted to go over immediately. But mom and I convinced her to wait.<br><br>10 days passed, and on new years day mom went to pick up my wife. I met up at mom's a few hours later with my sister. My mom and sister handled my wife. Mom went and got the jewelry. My sister went and got her things from our house.<br><br>My mom later told me my wife was making entreaties to her, during the hour she was alone, promising to do anything to get mom on her side. My Mom told her she was an embarrassment to her, her family, and everyone she knew. That she was a worthless person.<br><br>How my wife responded to my sister was completely different. "How does it feel knowing your brother is such a loser that he can't even get me knocked up?" My Sister smashed her face into the mirror. My wife was lucky my mom didn't let my sister go further. I heard from my mom that my wife can't even walk anymore because of the beating she got.<br><br>My wife later tried to call me. She told me Mom and sister wouldn't let her go unless she agreed to a divorce. I told her that's because she doesn't deserve to be my wife anymore. She offered to do whatever it took to get me back. I told her it was too late.<br><br>The last time she called, she said if I didn't take her back she would kill herself. I responded by telling her she should have thought of that before she cheated. Then I hung up and blocked her number.<br><br>My family is currently trying to get a divorce, and my wife is fighting it. The lawyer is certain that he'll be able to get it finalized this year, but right now I'm staying at my mom's.<br><br>This year is really going to suck for me. But with my mom, my sister, the kind strangers from Reddit and the support from my friends. I'm sure I'll be able to get through it okay. Thank you everyone who read this and my last post. Thank you everyone who gave advice.<br><br>EDIT: For those asking, my family is Asian, specifically Vietnamese. And no, I'm not billing my MIL for the paternity test.<br><br>EDIT2: First, I'd like to thank everyone who's shown me support. You all are truly the best.<br><br>I've been trying to respond as much as I can. But there are just too many to respond to. <br><br>I've seen a lot of you asking about the cultural aspect. Yes, my family is Asian. But this isn't about culture. It's just about me protecting myself and those I love. My wife's behavior was just completely unacceptable. And no one in my family defend her behavior. <br><br>I want to clarify something. My wife was not raised in the west. She comes from a very traditional vietnamese family, where marriage is a forever thing. Her parents were married when they were 20. Her grandparents were married when they were 17. They're all still happily married to this day. She knew what she did was wrong, and she knows she can't worm her way out of this, and she's just trying to guilt me into staying. She knows she's 100 percent in the wrong.<br><br>For those asking what kind of "abuse" she offered, she told me I could do whatever I wanted to her. I said I'd broke her limbs and not let her move for the rest of her life. She agreed. Then I said, she'd have to let me have full access to her body at anytime. She agreed and then I said I'd have sex with her in front of her mother, It'd be rough, and she'd have to be quiet. That was too much and she said no. Then she offered herself to my friends. At that point I'd had enough, and I grabbed the reports and left.<br><br>For those asking me to post the reports. I can't. The lab reports are in a different language. And the paternity test has private information on it. I'd rather not post it. And I really have better things to do than to write a story.<br><br>For those asking if I'd be raising the kid, the answer is no. I'm not the kid's father. The kid is not mine to raise. It's not my responsibility. It's not my job. I didn't ask for the kid. I won't be involved in the kid's life at all. My wife knew what she was doing, she knew what she was risking when she cheated, and she did it anyway. She has to face the consequences.<br><br>For those asking me to adopt, I answered above.<br><br>And for those asking for an update. I'll write as soon as anything major happens. I'll be more happy to tell you all that the