AITA for sending away 3 dozen girls from my daughter's birthday party because they didn't bring a gift?

I had a little girls birthday party over the weekend and hired a bounce house company to set it up in the back yard. My daughter is 6.<br><br>I have one daughter, a girl, and she had asked us to invite every girl in her class because she didn't want to hurt anyone's feelings by leaving them out. I have 3 sons as well and none of them wanted to do anything like that. So I told her fine, we'll invite every girl.<br><br>3 dozen girls showed up, and not a single one brought a gift. I was pissed at my daughter because she obviously offered them something in exchange.<br><br>We were going to let it slide, but when my daughter tried to cut the cake before blowing it out one of the girls grabbed the cake knife and held it to my wife's throat and took the cake from her and ate half of it herself. Then she started spitting wine at the other girls. We didn't serve any wine at all at this party, the little girl must have brought her own wine.<br><br>At that point I lost it and asked all the girls to leave. I called all the parents and explained what was happening, and most of them came right away to pick up their daughters. Since none of them brought gifts, I asked if I could at least return their gifts to them. That is when most of the parents told me their daughters never even asked for gifts, it was just girls from her school, and that their daughters never even went to school.<br><br>So either my daughter or her friends were lying, so I asked my daughter if she lied to us. She wouldn't answer. I thought she had been taken advantage of by these girls, so I pressed her for more information. She finally told me she had offered all the girls all of her toys and games if they would come to her party. I was pissed, but my wife said I shouldn't punish my daughter because she was only 6.<br><br>I was so angry by the time the party was over because all 3 dozen girls had eaten all our food and drank all the beer and liquor, and then left their trash all over the yard. The bounce house was also destroyed. They had somehow managed to puncture the bounce house and it was flattened when everyone left. I thought maybe they all worked at the bounce house company as well. I called the police and they said it sounded like a bunch of hookers had come to the party.<br><br>My wife was angry with me because I wouldn't let my daughter have her party with 3 dozen girls who didn't bring gifts. She thought I had overreacted.<br><br>AITA?