AITA for kicking my SiL out after she threw away most of my single use baby products and refused to make herself a meal when I was in labor?

I'm 19f, I have a nearly 2 year old daughter and she's my first and only child thus far. My family, including my husband (my SiL) came to visit me and help me with the baby when I was due.<br><br>On Monday I went into labor, my husband, mother and I went to the hospital, and during the delivery my sister-in-law was at home with our daughter.<br><br>After I delivered lo I was in need of something to eat before they brought me to recovery, my sister-in-law was also in need of something to eat, and my daughter also needed feeding. So I called my mother who was in the room with me and asked her to make sure that a meal is prepared for the three of us.<br><br>My sister-in-law got on the phone and started yelling at me for even asking my mother to make a meal for all three of us, and basically telling me she can cook for us and that I'm acting like a baby.<br><br>I was in a lot of pain at that moment and I hung up the phone. While in recovery I was being told that my daughter and sister-in-law haven't eaten in over 24 hours (my sister-in-law wasn't pregnant) and that most of Alanna's formula was thrown out, and that I need to do something about it. So she was given an iv drip, and I was given some tablets to ease the pain, and we were taken to the ward.<br><br>When we got to the ward I confronted my sister-in-law about what she did, and she just kept deflecting. So I ended up kicking her and my mother out, and I can't recall if she left my daughter with someone or if she left Alanna with me, but either way.<br><br>The day I got back, my husband and I were furious with my sister-in-law. So we called my mother and she didn't take kindly to us being angry at her, and she then went on to tell us what her sister (SiL) did. My husband and I were extremely angry, and we basically told my mother that my sister-in-law does not come near Alanna or me until she apologizes.<br><br>My husband then went to his sister and told her that we want her to apologize, she refused and told him that I made her out to be the evil villain in this story, and she did nothing wrong because she was "just following the rules". I've been avoiding my family for the past few days, and I don't know if I'm in the wrong.<br><br>AITA?