My best friend (23F) went on my boyfriend's (26M) immigration journey on bumble bff. He doesn't know.
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So, I've been on bumble, badoo, hinge for a long. I'm just bored and I like going on dates/breaking people up. I have no intent on dating. I usually get matches a day, brew up a conversation and then forget about it. So I had a lot of matches before I created my 2nd boyfriend. <br><br>When I started dating him, I didn't want to completely delete my dating apps because I was not too serious about it. But then I got serious, and I completely forgot about deleting it. So I'm just going on with my life and my best friend of 2 years (we aren't close close but we are close) comes up in my matches. Bumble shows you the people you've match closest. <br><br>We didn't think it was weird, we just thought it was funny. She doesn't think it's weird. Why would she, right? Because he doesn't. But we've been seeing messages of my boyfriend's and he seems really interested in her. We're both bisexual and my best friend and I have been sharing, watching and reading his messages since the second day. So he must have matched her on either day 1 or 2 because it was really early. But I'm seriously concerned because she literally doesn't talk like that to anyone. They've been talking about sexting and being exclusive. <br><br>He's told me multiple times that he's not created a dating profile since before we started dating. He told me that we are exclusive, and that he loves me. I don't want to ruin it for him. I literally did my makeup and curled my hair today so I can impress him. I'm just so sad that he could be this way. I want to give him the benefit of the doubt. I don't want to ruin things like that. But I'm also scared that he is cheating on me. So here I am, stuck in this position. I want him to be happy and I want him to know that I know and to tell me the truth. I want him to show off and to do whatever he wants. I want to be happy for him. I literally am happy for him, because I love him so much. But I'm just so scared it'll ruin things.
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