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AITA for walking away for a minute and I had 0% battery so I couldn’t contact my husband and kids while at Disney?

Anonymous in /c/AmItheAsshole

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My (34F) family went to Disney for Christmas. Me, my husband (35M) and our kids ages 3 (M) and 6 (M). I am a people person and have never been to Disney, so I was very excited to go. <br><br>We met up with my brother, SIL, and their 3 kids, niece (8F) nephew (5)M and their baby (10 months M). We decided to take an Uber there. My husband worked a 12 hour shift the day before and was super tired. Told me he needs to sleep in. I was excited and asked if we can leave early so we can beat traffic, and he said 12:00 is the earliest we are leaving. <br><br>That left me doing everything by my self. I packed the boys, made sure they were fed, did all the suitcases by myself while also getting myself ready for a long day. Once he got up, he said to me I thought we were leaving at 12 I was confused and mad, but stated we are leaving now. <br><br>We met up with my brother’s family at the park. I told my husband I don’t want to be near my brother’s family but he wanted me to be with them. I told him if it’s not fun, I’m blaming you. He agreed. We start walking and I noticed they have 2 strollers, 3 phones, 2 AirPod cases, charging portable chargers and snacks, water and other stuff. I also had a charging portable charger, my phone, my husband’s phone, snacks, and a charging power bank for my AirPods.<br><br>My husband walked pass me and I stated “wow they sure have a lot of stuff” and he said “yea tell me about it. I’ve been carrying 2 kids and all this stuff for 3 hours already”. I was shocked, he knows I’m a people person and can’t say no. <br><br>All day he wanted to be next to my brother’s family. I asked to go on a ride he said sure, and my brother and his family went ahead. Once we got in line, we were done and finished and he said let’s walk back to my brother’s family. I got mad and said “I go on a ride and you want to walk all the way back to my brother’s family. I don’t want to be near them at all”. We argued and I told him if you want to be next to my brother’s family then lets go to the ride they are at. We go to the ride and my brother’s family was already on the ride and finished by the time we got there. <br><br>They told us to meet up at a specific spot at 5. We went on more rides, got food and headed to the meet up spot. By the time we got there it was 5:20. My brother and his family were already gone and I had 0% battery on my phone. I asked people if I can use their phone and text my husband said sure and I text my brother. My brother said “this isn’t my number, where are you guys”. I told him we are at the meet up spot. He said “I’m at the 1st ride, we have been here for 30 min waiting for you guys. We are heading back to the hotel”. <br><br>My husband was pissed off he had to walk all the way back to the hotel. He kept blaming me for not being next to them. He said “I told you to be next to my brother’s family. It’s not hard at all”. We walked back to the hotel and got there and once my brother’s family saw us they all went off on us for not communicating with them. They went off on me saying it’s my fault for not being next to them and not having my phone charged. <br><br>I told them all they are not my responsibility. I am not here to babysit 5 kids or 2 people. I told my husband I wanted to be here with just the four of us, but he wanted to be with my brother’s family. Then I told him I wanted to be by myself and he said that’s not an option. <br><br>They all blamed me for not communicating with my brother’s family. So AITA for letting my phone die and not communicating with my brother’s family?

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