My husband is pushing me to agree to make my sister our surrogate using the medical flag-Uterus.

I am really conflicted and I would be really happy if I found someone to talk to here.<br>My husband and I are having trouble getting pregnant. He is getting really depressed and is getting really angry at me for not being able to get pregnant.<br>My sister has a husband and 2 kids of her own. I asked her if she would be open to carrying a child for us and she said she was. She said she was happy to do this for us.<br>My husband is now pushing for us to use the medical flag-Uterus on her. I know this makes her really uncomfortable but I didn't want to suggest any other option. I think this is the right way forward.<br>My husband is saying that she should not have the right to refuse. He is saying she should do this for me and him and that she should not let her own feelings get in the way of what I want. He said she has no right to use the flag-Uterus herself if she refuses to use it for me and says she should just suck it up and deal with it.<br>I know my husband is saying these things because she is not a vessel and because he is making her feel like a piece of meat. I don't agree with him but I feel like I need to give in to him to make him happy and stop him from being so angry with me.