Beware of Dobes.

I just had the most sinister experience. I have no hopes of any third world country ever becoming progressive, but the entire sub contributes to that, if even a little. <br>So I was at a mall in Pakistan and happened to chat with a salesgirl while browsing through her shop. She asked about my bf and she starts casual conversation about him and her own bf. She asks me if I had sex with him. I say no, and she says, "Why aren't you? So you both can be happy and calm." I ask her if she is into premarital sex. She says yes and goes on about how much happier she is after losing her virginity. She works all day. I was there at around 21:00. She says that after closing the shop, she lets her bf in for about half an hour and then he leaves and they close the shop and go home. I press whether that's hygenic, she says it's better than mental stress. I ask her how she handles her period. She says she could afford painkillers, anyway it doesn't last long. Her reason for making her bf happy in shop hours is that her bfs inner peace is more important than hers. She wouldn't let him watch p**n. She'd do whatever he wants. I ask her why she doesn't visit any gyno to avoid pregnancy. She says her bfs peace is more important. I try my best to convince her, but she ends the conversation by thanking me for my concern. I'm sitting in the car in tears writing this because this is becoming a trend. No matter how progressive any country becomes, things won't change without education and awareness. I will do my best to raise awareness on social media. With whatever influence I have, I will use it. <br><br>I really hope there is light at the end of the tunnel. I really hope that it's just a phase. <br><br>If you're reading this, I'm sorry. You deserve better. You are better. You deserve your peace. You are more important than anyone else.