Why do some women think we care about the way they look after 30?

In some of the other posts I've read about divorce, cheating etc from the female perspective, they always seem to make the thing about how they've let themselves go and become fat.<br><br>Why do they think we give a fuck? If I wanted a hot woman, I'd go dating. They seem to think we want a wife AND a super model?<br><br>Just bizarre.