My husband is divorcing me and it feels like a weight off my shoulders.

Marriage is between two people, but also involves two families, and the pressure from our families to stay married is overwhelming. <br><br>After years of contemplating, arguing and crying I am finally getting my divorce. I’m going to live my life finally and I couldn’t be happier. I’m not sure what the future holds, but for the first time ever I have hope. <br><br>Edit: I am now seeing a therapist. It’s been suggested that I have depression/anxiety and my therapist thinks there may be more going on. I’m starting to look into things, and from what I’ve read so far I would say it looks like BPD. My husband and I haven’t had sex since we got married. It is not uncommon for people with BPD to have sexual issues due to deep seated fears. I’m going to bring it up with my therapist next week to discuss further. It’s scary, but also I’m weirdly happy about it. We’re going to get to the bottom of this, and hopefully I’ll be able to function like a normal woman.