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Happened to see a Wedding Dress in my soon to be wife's Amazon Shopping List

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I (36M) was looking through Amazon with my Fiance (26F) for something and when I clicked on a link to a wedding dress, Amazon suggested "your wedding dress" and had a link below it. I was just about to click on it when my Fiancée took my phone from me and locked it immediately. I unlocked it as soon as I got it back and clicked on the link to see what it is. It was a wedding dress from David's Bridal. <br><br>I looked at her and asked if she was planning on Wedding? She was speechless and I could see a panic in her eyes. She told me that "It's for a friend". I asked her which friend and she started to cry saying that "It's for us obviously".<br><br>I asked her why she lied to me and why did she keep it a secret from me? She told me that she ordered it in size 12 but when she went to try it on, it didn't fit her. It was too tight on her waist because she gained some weight since she ordered it. She told me that she was planning on going to the Gym to lose some weight so it fits her, but she kept procrastinating and couldn't get herself to go to the gym.<br><br>She added saying that she feels embarrassed now to go to David's Bridal to try it on or show it to me because she gained so much weight and can't fit in it. I told her that she should have told me all of this from the beginning instead of keeping it a secret. <br><br>I saw the order was from months ago and I don't understand why someone would keep this a secret. I feel like something is off. She was honest with me about everything so far but the fact that she was lying and keeping it a secret from me is bothering me a lot. She was crying and saying that she feels embarrassed and ashamed to tell me about it. I didn't say anything to her and just came back to bed. I'm still in shock and don't know what to think of this.<br><br>What do you think people? Is there anything I should be worried about? She's been mature and honest about everything so far in our relationship. I don't know what to think.<br><br>**Edit: I think there's a lot of confusion here. I didn't buy the ring. She bought it for me and we went to this custom made place to make the rings together. I asked her to get the same ring that she showed me and she was very excited that I chose the same one that she showed me. We made the two rings together. She has her ring and I have mine as well.** <br><br>**Edit2/Update: I asked her to call David's Bridal with me on speaker and make an appointment to try on the dress and alter it so it fits her. I told her that she doesn't have to go to the Gym. She doesn't need to lose weight, but if she feels like it, I can go with her to the Gym. We made an appointment together and she was very happy. Later on, she confessed to me that she was feeling embarrassed and ashamed to tell me because she gained weight after moving in with me. She told me that she felt like a disappointment that she let herself go and gain weight and she was afraid that I would see her in a different way. I told her that I don't care about the weight and I love her no matter what. She was very happy after our talk.**

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