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[UPDATE] A couple (M29, F28) I matched on Bumble sent me a dick pic.

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Hi everybody, thanks for all the advice and kind words on my last post. <br><br>I received some comments saying that it was fake and that I should prove it. I want to apologize for not replying to the comments. I didn't have the time and I was going through a lot. I was already stressed about the situation and the whole Bumble thing, and then I got bombarded with comments asking for "proof". I'm just one person, and even though I replied to some comments asking for proof, I couldn't reply to all of them.<br><br>Some people said it was fake, or that I made it up for karma, or that I was the one that sent the "dick pic" (I'm a woman btw, using he/him pronouns). <br><br>I'm going to answer some questions that were asked in the comments.<br><br>>Is the couple still together? Are they still using Bumble, was the profile deleted?<br><br>Yes, the couple is still together, and as far as I know, they're still using Bumble.<br><br>>Did you report them to Bumble?<br><br>I did, but Bumble didn't do anything. I sent them all the screenshots and they said they couldn't do anything, as the couple hadn't violated the TOS, and they were going to keep using the app. <br><br>>Did you send the screenshots to the girl's workplace?<br><br>Yes. I contacted the HR department and sent them all the screenshots. The company replied saying they were going to look into it and that they would contact me to ask for more information. I'm going to keep the name of the company private to protect their identities.<br><br>>What's going to happen to them?<br><br>I don't know. Like I said, I contacted the HR department and they said they were going to look into it. They contacted me again and asked me more questions, and said they were going to be in touch.<br><br>>Can I post the screenshots?<br><br>No. I'm not going to post the screenshots. I don't want to reveal the couple's identities, because they might lose their jobs, and the girl might lose her medical license (she's a resident).<br><br>I'm just going to say that the girl works in the medical field, and she's going to lose her medical license. The guy works in the tech industry.<br><br>>Why didn't you just block them?<br><br>I did block them. I just wanted justice for this situation. I wanted to make sure this couple was held accountable. I think they might have done this to other people and I wanted to make sure they couldn't do it to anyone else.<br><br>>Can you give an update?<br><br>Yes, I'm giving you an update. <br><br>I just want to say thanks again for all the help you guys gave me and for all the kind words. I appreciate it so much.<br><br>&#x200B;<br><br>EDIT: I didn't expect this post to get so much attention and I'm not going to reply to every comment, so please don't take it personally if I don't reply to you. I appreciate all the support but some of the comments are just getting too weird.<br><br>EDIT 2 (since people keep asking):<br><br>I don't care if the guy gets in trouble. I care that the GIRL loses her career. She's the one in medical school, she's the one that is going to lose her career.<br><br>I don't care if they get "humiliated". I don't care if they get bullied. I care that the GIRL loses her job and medical license. <br><br>I'm not going to give an update on the guy, only on the girl.

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