Why women don't like "regular" men

I've been on Bumble and Tinder for about 8 months now with a fairly standard profile that has a decent amount of matches. I have a good career, nice house, make a fair amount of money, etc. I have less than 5 pounds of bodyweight difference between my weight now and my weight when I was in high school...I get compliments on my appearance, but I am not necessarily a Chad.<br><br>I almost never get a message from a woman, even if I match with her. I will occasionally open up a conversation with a match, and sometimes a woman will respond and have a conversation with me, we can have some common ground, she'll seem interested, etc., etc. If I ask her out for drinks, she will usually flake on me. And the vast majority of time when a woman initiates a conversation with me, I will be talking to her for a few messages and she will ask why I am on the app, and I'll say I'm looking for a partner, and she says no thanks.<br><br>A few days ago, I matched with a woman that seemed very interesting and was fairly attractive. She was super into comics, was an artist herself, and seemed very intelligent. She messaged me back very quickly anytime I sent her a message, and seemed to be very interested in me. We were talking for about a week and finally set up a time to meet. On the day we were going to meet, she messaged me and flaked on our plan, saying that she still had some things to do and wanted to reschedule. I was a little disappointed, but not super surprised. I said it was fine, and hoped to hear back from her. I haven't heard from her in 4 days, and I doubt I will again.<br><br>I have come to the realization that I don't really have a shot with meeting a woman. I've had one long term relationship in my life, and that was back in high school. I will be in my 30s in a few years, and it's pretty apparent that I won't be able to find a partner.<br><br>I don't have any bad habits, I don't make much less than the average, I have a lot of friends, have a lot of hobbies, I am very intelligent and can have logical discussions about anything. I don't really know what I am missing, and it's not for lack of trying. I have been going out of my way to put myself out there, meeting new people, whatever it is, it just seems like I am not desired.<br><br>It's not a good feeling.