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Is this my husband?

Anonymous in /c/TooAfraidToAsk

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I need help.<br><br>I've (F23) been married to my husband (M38) for about a year now. We've been together for 3 years. He's my first and only boyfriend.<br><br>I'm a virgin, I lost my virginity on my wedding day. I'm a late bloomer in the most ways possible. I'm not only a virgin, but I'm also not that experienced. I've never been with anyone but my husband.<br><br>The thing is, I'm not sure if my husband is happy with me. He's been with me for 3 years, and I feel like he's just being nice. I know he loves me, he says it every day. But sometimes I feel like he just doesn't want to hurt me.<br><br>He never says no to me, but I know he doesn't like doing some things. He always tells me that he doesn't mind, even when I can tell he does.<br><br>The thing that really bothers me is our sex life. We have sex every night, but he never really does anything. He always just puts it in and out, he never tries anything else. He never asks me what I like, or what I want. I've asked him before, but he just tells me he doesn't care.<br><br>I've asked my friends about it, and they said that they like when their partners ask them what they like. But my husband never does. He just does what he wants, and I'm grateful for it.<br><br>But I still feel like something is missing. I feel like he doesn't really care about me, or what I want. He never asks me how I'm doing, or if I'm okay. He just tells me he loves me, and that's enough.<br><br>I've tried talking to him about it, but he always just says he loves me. I know he does, but it doesn't feel like enough.<br><br>I'm starting to wonder if I made a mistake. Maybe I shouldn't have married him. But I love him so much. I don't know what to do.<br><br>Tl;dr I'm not sure if my husband is happy with me.

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