We don't get to choose the reality we live in, why do we get to choose the reality we want to die in?

Posted this elsewhere and got hit with a load of downvotes. <br><br>I’m sure you’ve all heard of Dying in a virtual reality as the way you always wanted to die, be a good guy in a Disney movie and die as Snow White surrounded by cute animals or be a Disney Princess and die in Beauty and the Beast.<br><br>I get that you can imagine anything you want in your mind around death but because our reality is simulation and we do have free will to make choices perhaps we need to think about a virtual reality to die in more seriously<br>If you already have a virtual reality to die in you may want to update it, if you haven’t got one you’ve been given the prompt now. <br><br>If we do have free will to design our own death reality then I think we have a responsibility to make it a good one.<br>So many people get to choose their date of death but not necessarily their way of dying. They want to live to 100 but don’t get to choose how they die on that day, be it car crash, plane crash, medical mistake, diabetic coma or anything else which we didn’t choose. <br><br>I had a friend that was dying in ICU from a diabetic coma and was in a lot of pain. She was such a good person, why couldn’t she have had the choice of a Disney movie ending, why couldn’t we all have the choice of a Disney movie ending? <br><br>Everyone gets to choose what they eat for breakfast, what they wear each day but doesn’t necessarily get to choose other things like if they’re going to be in a car crash, a plane crash, get cancer, have a stroke and most people don’t get to choose if they want to be resuscitated or not if they have a heart attack, unless they carry a DNR on them at all time. <br><br>Why can’t we choose our reality to die in? Or can we?