My girlfriend (25f) won’t stop calling me (33m) at all hours of the day/night and I don’t know what to do. I’m getting in my car and leaving for several hours a day just to get a break.

Throw away account. This is some weird shit that is happening right now in my life. I don’t know what to do or where to go from here.<br><br>My (33m) girlfriend (25f) has been calling me all day, every day, sometimes over 20 times per day, some days, and I don’t know what to do about it.<br><br>It started a few years ago. I have a weird job where I am always on call and have to be available to my superiors at all times. So I would get calls at work from my superiors and when I would get off work, I would call my girlfriend to check in and say hi and to see how her day was going. I would call her, sometimes 3 or 4 times a day and that was that. <br><br>Well, for the last year, things have gone downhill. I now get calls from my girlfriend in the morning, calling me to see if I’m up. I don’t really like this because it’s intrusive and I feel like it’s overstepping. I’ll get a call from her at 8am and I’ll be like “oh, you’re up”. “Yeah, I was just calling to see if you’re up”. And I’ll be like “why are you calling me to see if I’m up”. She’s like “I just was calling to see if you’re up” And I’ll be like “why? I’m not your mother, why are you calling me to see if you’re up?” And she’ll get defensive and say “I’m just calling to see if you’re up. I just wanted to know if you’re up.” <br><br>And I’ll be like “I’m not up yet. I’ll talk to you in an hour”. And she’ll say “okay, I’ll go get breakfast”. And I’ll be like “why do you need to get breakfast?” And she’ll say “I just wanted breakfast” And I’ll be like “why can’t you get yourself breakfast?” And she’ll be like “I just don’t feel like doing it.” And I’ll be like “That’s fine, but I’m going” And she’ll be like “what are you going to do?” And I’ll be like “I’m going to get breakfast.” And she’ll be like “You don’t have to go get breakfast.” And I’ll be like “I’m going to go get breakfast” And she’ll be like “Okay, I’ll come with you.” And I’ll be like “No, I don’t want you to. I just want to go get breakfast.” And she’ll be like “You don’t need to get breakfast.” And I’ll be like “I’m going to go get breakfast” And she’ll be like “I’m going to go get breakfast with you.” And I’ll be like “I don’t want you to” And she’ll be like “I’m going to go get breakfast with you” And I’ll be like “I’m going to go get breakfast” And she’ll be like “I’m going to go get breakfast with you.” And I’ll be like “I’m going to go get breakfast” And she’ll be like “I’m going to go get breakfast with you.” <br><br>And then I’ll go get breakfast and I’ll text her and let her know what I’m getting and she’ll be like “I’m gonna get the same thing as you” And I’ll be like “I don’t want you to.” And she’ll be like “I’m gonna get the same thing as you.” And I’ll be like “I’m not gonna come get you” And she’ll be like “You’re just gonna leave me here?” And I’ll be like “I’m just gonna get breakfast.” And she’ll be like “I’m gonna get the same thing as you” And I’ll be like “I’m gonna get breakfast” And she’ll be like “You’re just gonna leave me here?” And I’ll be like “Yeah, I’m gonna get breakfast.” And she’ll be like “I’m gonna get the same thing as you” And I’ll be like “I’m gonna get breakfast” And she’ll be like “You’re just gonna leave me here?” And I’ll be like “Yeah, I’m gonna get breakfast.” And she’ll be like “I’m gonna get the same thing as you.” And I’ll be like “I’m gonna get breakfast.” And she’ll be like “You’re just gonna leave me here?” And I’ll be like “Yeah, I’m gonna get breakfast.” And she’ll be like “I’m gonna get the same thing as you.” <br><br>And I’ll be like “I’m gonna go get breakfast.” And she’ll be like “I’m gonna get the same thing as you” And I’ll be like “I’m gonna get breakfast.” And she’ll be like “You’re just gonna leave me here?” And I’ll be like “Yeah, I’m gonna get breakfast.” And she’ll be like “I’m gonna get the same thing as you.” And I’ll be like “I’m gonna get breakfast.” And she’ll be like “I’m gonna get the same thing as you” And I’ll be like “I’m gonna get breakfast.” And she’ll be like “You’re just gonna leave me here?” And I’ll be like “Yeah, I’m gonna get breakfast.” And she’ll be like “I’m gonna get the same thing as you.” And I’ll be like “I’m gonna get breakfast.” And she’ll be like “I’m gonna get the same thing as you” And I’ll be like “I’m gonna get breakfast.” And she’ll be like “I’m gonna get the same thing as you” And I’ll be like “I’m gonna get breakfast.” And she’ll be like “I’m gonna get the same thing as you.” And I’ll be like “I’m gonna get breakfast.” And she’ll be like “I’m gonna get the same thing as you” And I’ll be like “I’m gonna get breakfast.” And she’ll be like “I’m gonna get the same thing as you” And I’ll be like “I’m gonna get breakfast.” And she’ll be like “I’m gonna get the same thing as you.” And I’ll be like “I’m gonna get breakfast.” And she’ll be like “I’m gonna get the same thing as you.” And I’ll be like “I’m gonna get breakfast.” And she’ll be like “I’m gonna get the same thing as you.” And I'll be like "I'm gonna get breakfast." And she'll be like "I'm gonna get the same thing as you." <br><br>And I’ll do this for hours. We’ll go get breakfast and she’ll get the same thing I got. We’ll go back to her house and I’ll do chores. She’ll go get lunch and I’ll meet her there. She’ll bring me a t-shirt or a pair of jeans and I’ll be like “why are you bringing me clothes?” And she’ll be like “I thought you might want this.” And I’ll be like “why would I want that?” And she’ll be like “I just thought you might want it.” <br><br>And I’ll be like “I don’t want it” And she’ll be like “okay” And I’ll be like “why are you bringing me clothes?” And she’ll be like “I just thought you might want it.” And I’ll be like “why?” And she’ll be like “I don’t know.” And I’ll be like “I don’t want it” And she’ll be like “okay” And I’ll be like “why are you bringing me clothes?” And she’ll be like “I just thought you might want it.” And I’ll be like “why?” And she’ll be like “I don’t know.” And I’ll be like “I don’t want it” And she’ll be like “okay” <br><br>I’ll be at work and she’ll call me to see how my day is going. And I’ll be like “It’s going great. I’m having a blast.” And she’ll be like “Oh. I’m gonna go to the gym.” And I’ll be like “Oh cool.” And she’ll be like “I’m gonna go to the gym.” And I’ll be like “I know you’re going to the gym.” And she’ll be like “I’m gonna go to the gym.” And I’ll be like “Oh. Is that all you’re doing today?” And she’ll be like “Yeah.” And I’ll be like “Oh cool.” And she’ll be like “I’m gonna go to the gym” And I’ll be like “Okay.” And she’ll be like “I’m gonna go to the gym.” And I’ll be like “I know you’re going to the gym.” And she’ll be like “I’m gonna go to the gym.” And I’ll be like “Oh.” And she’ll be like “I’m gonna go to the gym.” And I’ll be like “Ok.” And she’ll be like “I’m gonna go to the gym.” And I’ll be like “Oh.” And she’ll be like “I’m gonna go to the gym.” <br><br>And I’ll be like “I’m gonna go get dinner” And she’ll be like “I’m gonna go get dinner with you” And I’ll be like “I’m not gonna come get you.” And she’ll be like “You’re not gonna come get me?” And I’ll be like “I’m gonna go get dinner” And she’ll be like “You’re not gonna