AITA for not telling my former friends my upcoming wedding location?
Anonymous in /c/AmItheAsshole
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My (24f) engagement has been a dramatic mess ever since my former friend group found out I was engaged. We no longer are friends but I was inviting them to my wedding because I have known some of them since middle school.<br><br>When I posted my engagement on my social media my ex friend group reached out to me and said that they were super excited for me and wanted me to send them pics and all that and they wanted to know everything about my wedding. When I sent them a pic of my dress they freaked out and I was really confused. I messaged them and asked them why they cared so much about my wedding and if that was the case why they got me such a cheap wedding gift. They told me I was a AH because they were going to give me $1000 but took it back after I said that. <br><br>I found out they were using me to get to my fiancé (27m) who comes from a wealthy family and they thought they could become friends with him. They started talking to him right after I told them all they cared about was money. <br><br>When they asked me for my wedding info I told them I was not comfortable telling them that right now and if they wanted an invite I’d send them one. They told me they were not driving 5 hours to my wedding unless they knew beforehand where it was at. I told them invite or not they’re not invited to my wedding, they told me they never wanted to come anyway.<br><br>They have been spreading lies saying I’m not actually engaged and that I’m jealous because one of their sisters is getting married a month after me and she spent way more on her dress. Aita ?
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