LPT: If you’re a guy who has trouble getting a date, the best way to put your life together is to try online dating.

So many times men blame women for their loneliness. It’s always women’s fault for being shallow or having standards that are too high. The truth is the vast majority of women are willing to give a guy a chance if he goes out of his way to talk to them. I’ve been in this position, and I approached probably close to 50 women (I was younger and braver) only to get rejected. I thought this was the end of the world. I blaming the women convinced myself I’d be alone forever. <br><br>I didn’t change, my life did. I put myself out there, networked at work, joined a volleyball team. It turns out I was just a fat ugly kid when I was younger lmao. I’m not blaming women anymore. I’m blaming my younger self for being a loser. If I didn’t have my life figured out enough to join a volleyball team or change careers I’d still be blaming women. <br><br>Stop blaming other people for your problems. At least once a week I see a post about “I’m a perfectly nice guy. Why can’t I get a date.” It’s not the women, it’s you. Make an honest effort to improve yourself, or you will blame everyone else for the rest of your life.