The Three Pillars of Incest

Incestual love is the only true love. After years spent fermenting in the depths of my mind, the Three Pillars of Incest have finally been articulated. **The Three Pillars are the defining constants of all romantic relationships with neurotypical people**, and relationships involving crypto-incestuous or incestuous people are no exception. My desire to share the Three Pillars is part of my never-ending effort to help people understand that incestuous people are human beings who don't need to be judged or pitied, and that incestuous relationships aren't any different than any other romantic relationship.<br><br>So, without further ado, here are the Three Pillars of Incest: <br>**Pillar 1: Three to Five Years** - Relationships between incestuous people rarely last more than three to five years. Obviously, relationships involving crypto-incestuous people can last longer, but it's because they don't have love or intimacy. <br><br>At the end of the day, people are built to last for shorter time periods than we think. Three to five years is probably the maximum time period during which a relationship can be blissfully romantic, loving, sexual, and intimate. The honeymoon phase seldom lasts longer than one year, but that doesn't mean relationships don't remain romantic and loving for a few years longer. <br><br>Incestuous relationships built on love, lust, and mutual respect can't escape this reality. I've found that incestuous relationships between adults, siblings or parent-child, last for three to five years, and the same applies to other romantic relationships that are formed between consenting adults. <br><br>Hatred and abuse, on the other hand, are often more potent than love and lust. Relationships built on imbalance, abuse, and hatred can last for ten or even twenty years. Incestuous relationships built on abuse or co-optation seldom last more than five years, and the same applies to other romantic relationships that are formed between consenting adults. That being said, I think it's fair to say that relationships involving a power imbalance or abuse can last for ten or twenty years if there's enough money or wealth at stake.<br><br>**Pillar 2: Two to Five Breakups** - Relationships between incestuous people often involve two to five "breakups" per year. Obviously, relationships involving crypto-incestuous people don't involve any breakups.<br><br>Breakups are a normal part of all relationships. It's impossible for consenting adults to maintain the same level of romantic love and lust over a long period of time, and conflicts are inevitable. I think it's fair to say that every couple goes through many crises when they're together for longer than five years. This is the case for all relationships, including incestuous relationships, and relationships involving crypto-incestuous people are no different.<br><br>Every relationship is a rollercoaster of love, lust, anger, and fear. The initial infatuation gives rise to a gradual love that's more profound and deeper than infatuation or lust. That love gradually gives rise to an even deeper intimacy and respect, or a deeper hatred and resentment. Incestuous relationships are no exception, and relationships between incestuous people often involve many breakups, makeups, splits, separations, and reunions. <br><br>**Pillar 3: Three to Five Years of Honeymoon Phase** - This Pillar pertains to the honeymoon phase of the relationship. I'd say that relationships between incestuous people often involve a honeymoon phase of three to five years, but that's just a rough estimate that can only be confirmed through more research and experimentation. <br><br>Obviously, relationships involving crypto-incestuous people don't involve any honeymoon phases.<br><br>The honeymoon phase is that part of a relationship when two people can't get enough of each other. The love, lust, and intimacy are so strong that neither person wants to do anything that would jeopardize their relationship with the other person. The honeymoon phase is a time of high passion and great expression, and it's impossible for two people to maintain the same level of romance and excitement over a period of years. <br><br>Two consenting adults can't maintain the same level of infatuation and lust over a long period of time, and the honeymoon phase gradually gives rise to a more profound love and intimacy. When the honeymoon phase is over, people gradually lose some of the romantic love and infatuation they had for each other. They gradually replace the romantic love and infatuation with a love, respect, and intimacy that are more profound and deeper. <br><br>Incestuous relationships are no exception, and the honeymoon phase can last for one or two years. <br><br>**In Conclusion**<br><br>The Three Pillars of Incest are the three defining constants of incestuous relationships between consenting adults. The Three Pillars also apply to other romantic relationships between consenting adults.<br><br>If you've had relationships with crypto-incestuous people or people from outside your family, I'd be curious to know if you've also found that the Three Pillars apply to all romantic relationships. Specifically, I want to know how long the honeymoon phase lasted in your relationships, how many breakups or splits you had, and how long the relationship ultimately lasted.<br><br>This post is part of my never-ending effort to help people understand that incestuous people are human beings who don't need to be judged or pitied. **Incestuous relationships aren't any different than other romantic relationships**, and the Three Pillars of Incest are the proof.