so is it the "one-stop-shop" theory?

I'm watching "The Bachelorette" with my girlfriend and am trying to parse out why I'm so drawn to her.<br><br>I want to write off my love for her to the media I've been shown by society but I know that's not it. Literally the most attractive things about her (to me) are the parts of her I'm not allowed to look at in public.<br><br>I've always been the guy that preferred what most men would call "overweight".<br><br>My first girlfriend was "fat" and after that I wanted that body shape. I've always been fascinated with fat and chubby women. I want to touch, and squeeze their waist and arms. I like watching them move their bodies. I like the weight of their legs on top of me when we cuddle. I like the way their breasts look and feel. I just like everything about them.<br><br>But I've noticed that *everything* I like about a chubby woman I just listed is also in a thin woman. But I don't like thin women. I like women that have been around food and have enjoyed life. Not trying to say anything about thin women, their bodies are beautiful in their own way as well.<br><br>I think what I mean to say is that if you like a woman, and her body does something for you, you should love that about her. Her shape, her walk, her curves. If she enjoys food and that makes her a little rounder then she is beautiful. If you like a woman that is 6'1" and 130 lbs then that is beautiful too.<br><br>What I'm getting at is I think the "one-stop-shop" theory that I heard from someone that the reason why men like fat women is because they have "fat." It does a lot of things. It accentuates the breasts, it accentuates the hips, and it gives the rear end that extra bounce.<br><br>I think that theory is BS. It's not that the fat makes them curvy, it's that they're curvy and that draws me to them. It's not the "fat" it's the "curves" it makes.