What confuses me about feminism

There are many things that confuse me about feminism. What confuses about feminism is that feminism is supposed to be about promoting gender equality. Feminism is not supposed to be about making women better than men, its about making sure men and women both have the same opportunities. Thats the theory anyway. <br><br>And I was listening to these radical feminists and what I heard is that radical feminism is not about making men and women equal, its about tearing men down. What I have heard radical feminists say is that men are pigs, they are stupid, they are arrogant (just to name a few). I heard radical feminists say that men are not capable of feeling in the same way that women are, that men are not capable of loving the same way that women are. <br><br>Radical feminists are also saying that men are not capable of feeling hurt or pain in the same way that women are. Radical feminists say that sure, men are physically stronger than women. Radical feminists then say "but physical strength does not matter". Radical feminists then say that to be strong, one must be capable of feeling pain. Radical feminists say that women are capable of feeling pain, they just do not express it at all or very much. Radical feminists then say that "even though men feel pain, they are just as capable of feeling it as women are, men do not express it at all or very much". Then radical feminists say that even though both men and women feel pain, they just do not show it at all or very much, women are capable of feeling a lot more pain than men are. <br><br>Radical feminists then say that sure, men are physically stronger than women, but women are capable of bearing children. Radical feminists then say that "men are not capable of bearing children, men are not biologically equipped to bear children". Radical feminists then say that "because women are capable of bearing children, women are stronger than men are". <br><br>Radical feminists also say "there are no real differences in intelligence, men and women are equally as intelligent as each other are". Radicals feminists then say that "sure, men are better at math and science than women are, but when it comes to language and social skills, women are better at language and social skills than men are". Radical feminists then say that "women being better at language and social skills than men are is much more important than men being better at math and science than women are is". Radical feminists then say that "because women are better at language and social skills than men are, women are more intelligent than men are". <br><br>Radical feminists also say "because men are stronger physically than women are, men are capable of defending themselves. Radical feminists then say that "because women are not as strong physically as men are, women are not capable of defending themselves. Radical feminists then say that "even though men are capable of defending themselves because they are stronger physically than women are, the fact that women are not capable of defending themselves because women are not physically as strong as men are means that women are stronger than men are". <br><br>Radical feminists then say "men are arrogant and have an inflated sense of self importance. They then say that "because women are the ones who are bearing children, women are responsible for populating the Earth". Radical feminists then say that "because women are the ones who are bearing children, women are responsible for populating the Earth, women are responsible for life. They then say that "because men are not capable of bearing children, men are not responsible for life". <br><br>Radical feminists then say "men are arrogant and have an inflated sense of self importance because men take credit for the work that women do. Radical feminists then say "its not men who are responsible for life, its women who are responsible for life". They then say that "men think that they are responsible for life, men think that they are strong because they think they are responsible for life. In reality, men are not responsible for life, its women who are responsible for life". Radical feminists then say that "because its women who are responsible for life, women are stronger than men are". <br><br>Radical feminists then say "men believe that they are responsible for life, they believe that they are strong because they think that they are responsible for life. They then say that "its because of this lie that men believe that they are better than women". Radical feminists then say that "because men think that they are better than women, men are pigs". Radical feminists then say "because men are pigs, its women who are responsible for holding them back. Radical feminists then say that "its because women are holding men back that women are stronger than men are".