The dating experience, it's time to leave. Soon.

All the comments about what matters in SMV are spot on, it does not pay off to put in all the effort to detect one's problems. The more you put into something, the more you are actually giving away. And it does not even matter, because it is all just something you can't actually control. And in all honesty, if it were that simple to get someone's attention, why would you even want to be with them in the first place. Easier to be with yourself.