I learned from Dad that women don't love you, just your bank account

Not once did I ever see a girl or woman in my life show a genuine interest in me. My girlfriends growing up would chat with my dad, showing interest in his world travels, his occupation, his experiences. They would ask him about how much he made and if he owned a house. One girlfriend, as we were in high school, would fish to see how much he made, asking if "he made six figures," to which he would respond, "I make way more than that, honey." Once she had that information, it was time to put out, and she was quick to end the relationship when her mother fell on hard times and they had to move away to a different city. I watched my Dad's women cheat on him, and when they left him, they would leave for richer men. I was an attractive kid, but no women ever showed genuine interest in me, as I wasn't making a dime. <br><br><br>I would later discover, as an adult, that I attracted gold diggers because my occupation had the potential to make a lot of money. For the longest time, I didn't capitalize on my earning potential because I was emotionally immature and I spent a lot of time and money on women, trying to get them to love me. Once I began to capitalize on my occupation, I became a magnet for gold diggers. My two ex-fiances left me for richer men, while the last girl I dated I discovered cheated on me with a man who was wealthier and more attractive than I was. <br><br><br>After that, I realized that women had no capacity to love men as women are incapable of loving anything but themselves. I've since given up on women and learned from my Dad to focus on myself. We are both doing well and enjoying our bachelorhood.