Why do women think they're so gross by putting on 10 pounds?

I met my husband in College. He was 19, I was 20. I was 5'6 140 pounds at the time. Nowadays I'm 5'6 160-165. I paused at 160 for a while and now I've gained even more after delivering our son. I'm 165 now, but I was 165 before I got pregnant. <br><br>During pregnancy I gained 40 pounds and I'm really happy I didn't gain more. <br><br>After having our son, I'm 26 years old and I was 5'6 165. Maybe 167 by now because I didn't care about dieting anymore. <br><br>I mean I made sure to eat a lot of veggies and fruit, but I got so tired of being a sinch to be my son's caregiver. I would eat Doritos and drink soda and eat fast food etc. I felt bad, but within reason I let go of dieting. <br><br>My husband never said anything bad about my weight. Never. <br><br>I get the feeling that all women are just afraid to be big. They will tell him to get a scale and take selfies of themselves and put the weight on the selfie and talk about how they will go to the gym and all that stuff.<br><br>I don't care. I know he loves me but I don't care. Most women are so afraid that their partner will cheat on them or dump them if they gain weight. I just don't get it.