I am a Chads dad

Hi I am a chad, I have 2 sons and a daughter I am just gonna call them chad junior and Barney for the sake of this story. I am 45 now, but when I was 25 I was chad. Im 6ft1 with short dark hair and blue eyes, I was pretty built and had a lot of luck with the ladies. I met my wife when I was 22 and we had 3 kids together by the time I was 28, life was great. I was married to a beautiful woman with 3 great kids and I was doing well for myself and my family. I will go into "Barney" before "Chad Junior" because the reason I am putting myself on here is because of him. <br><br> "Barney" was always a strange kid, he had delayed speech and walked late compared to his older brother. He was about 135 lbs at age 13 and stood at 5ft6, so he was a bit overweight but we figured he would just grow out of it. Anyway we got him tested for autism and he was on the spectrum, not severe or anything but enough to make social interactions hard for him. I am not gonna lie An "autist son" isn't what I wanted, but I was prepared to deal with it. He had all these quirks and fixation and it was annoying but I could handle it. He was going into high school and he was about 140 lbs at 5ft7, he was doing pretty well and making friends, and everything was alright. <br><br>Now, I never treated "Barney" any differently than "Chad Junior". I never punished him or anything like that. I may have gotten frustrated sometimes but what parent doesn't with their "autistic" child? But I think what may have tipped him over the edge was when he asked me for a car when he turned 16. I told him no because typically "autistic" people don't make the best drivers, and I didn't wanna risk him killing someone. He had a full on melt down and was yelling at me saying I hated him and I played favorites to his brother. I grabbed him and told him to shut up, but I think that moment may have caused him to snap. <br><br>Anyway, he is 19 now, he is 5ft9 at 160 and usually keeps his head down. He doesn't go to college and he keeps strange hours, he works as "delivery driver" for Amazon. He is pretty stand off-ish and doesn't really talk to anyone anymore. He usually sits all day in his room playing video games and smoking pot. He doesn't interact much with his family, but I don't really mind that much. What really started to bother me was last year when I found out he was on some weird "hate" sites. I really don't care that he is a racist, sexist, whatever-ist. What I don't like is he is using those places to spread pieces of personal family information out to strangers. <br><br>"Chad Junior" is 22 now and he is 6ft4 and 200 lbs, hes a brick and usually in control of himself. He played some sports in college and he keeps a very clean and tidy room. He doesn't smoke weed like his brother and is usually pretty respectful. He is a very confident young man and does well with the ladies. I am very proud of the man he is today and I can tell he will be very successful. <br><br>Anyway I was looking at "Barneys" phone the other day (its for his own safety) and I found a post of his of some "incelest sub" saying "I wonder what it would be like to fuck my sibling". He had 3 replies all with some variation of "dont do it". I really don't care if he jerks off to the thought of fucking his brother in the shower. But I don't want him actually doing it. Im not gonna punish him or anything yet, but he deserves one more chance to shape up before I do something about it.