Random question… do you guys feel you have a different relationship because of your size?

I’ve always been 130 lbs/5’6” but much bigger than me. I’ll never forget a friend was about 200 lbs and 5’5” and said “I love your skirt” and I said “you’d look cute in it too” and she said “no I’m way too fat”. I’ll never forget that because it was the first time I “saw” myself through someone else’s eyes. I was so very skinny but I realized no one sees their own body the way it is. Anyways, I know this was a big OBVIOUS to everyone but I feel like the difference in size has made me more aware of the opinions people have about your size. Before I never heard opinions about my size. But with bigger people I hear opinions because people OBVIOUSLY have a lot to say about fat people. We’ve been together for over 10 years and I was just wondering if you feel like there’s a difference being in a relationship with a petite girl. I feel that way because people always comment on the size difference and the dynamics of the relationship. I feel like a lot of stereotypes come about our relationship because of the size difference. He says he never thought about it before but I think that’s because he doesn’t hear the comments that I hear.<br><br>I get a lot of comments like “you look even smaller next to him” or “you’re so fragile you need an extra large protector” I even get comments on how cute/matching we are because I’m little and he’s big… like this dynamic is ideal which it’s not.<br><br>I know a lot of people have a lot of opinions on big girls but I’m wondering if they ever think about the little girls and their experiences. <br><br>Anyways just wanted to ask you guys this question “do you feel like you have a different relationship because of your size”