My brother is hotter than my husband.

I am 45 years old. I have been married to my husband for 16 years. We have three children together. My husband is a great father but I have always suppressed the idea that he is not the most attractive man. My brother has been married for 22 years and recently his wife died of cancer. He is 5 years younger. I feel like I am falling for my brother. I feel inappropriate as my brother did not have a relationship with any woman after his wife. So I am going to have self-control and post as little as possible.