AITA for saying my husband is the reason why we are about to lose our home?

I have been married to Bob for 5 years. Prior to us being married, we lived in an apartment that I got when my mom passed away the same year prior. It was a condo, I was under it for 5 years, with 10 years remaining. I was fortunate enough to get the condo almost fully furnished and pretty much everything needed. It's been great for us. <br><br>Up until Bob got this idea to start a business. He got us investors, and some loans, and we started looking around for properties. Well 6 months later and we have a new home, which is about 5 times bigger than our previous one, and is more expensive. But we are maintaining it well, and are even able to have some savings. <br><br>The thing is, he has expected me to pay almost the same amount of money I used to pay on my own prior to our new home. No, he does not have a job, and other than the business he started, he doesn't have any income. And he expects our home costs to be covered by my job. I pay 70% of the home costs and he insults me for it. <br><br>He's also been spending money like crazy on stupid things. I woke him up the other day, saying we are about to lose our home because the company hasn't paid out and we don't have enough to pay it. And his response was "get a job". <br><br>He thinks the business is doing well. It's actually been a decline. And I think it's because of how much he spends on himself. He is convinced that everything is going great. I've accused him of draining the business account and the home account for his own personal gain. He's furious that I would think that. <br><br>I've been considering leaving him because I think he's becoming dangerous and scary. But I'm not sure. <br><br>AITA for saying he is the reason why we are about to lose our home?<br><br>Edit: I should add that I was able to get the condo through this program my city offers for people who cannot afford a home. I did pay a down payment, but it was a lot lower than a typical down payment is. However, the downside was that it has a 15 year mortgage, and an interest rate is higher. If I don't pay the full 15 years, then I am penalized pretty heavily. But at the time, I couldn't afford anything, so I was very grateful. <br><br>I should also mention that the new home we are in is paid for, he paid it with the loan money and our savings. The loan is actually from him, so it will be paid out in 10 years to the investors.