My partner is 500lbs and is in the ER

I made an account just for this post and I am not sure if I am ready to post my full story (it’s complicated) it’s 7am in the morning local time. <br><br>My partner is 500+lbs and is in the ICU. <br><br>Shes in critical condition and they are afraid it may be renal failure.<br><br>Part of me feels like I knew this was coming and I want to feel better.<br><br>Is anyone a nurse or knows what the deal with renal failure is? <br><br>We love her so much but I don’t know what to do here.