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My (28F) boyfriend (34M) admitted to me that he’s never pleasured himself in his life and that he has never masturbated?

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My boyfriend and I are 6 months together. We are sexually active and he makes love to me regularly. <br><br>His sexual performance is great and he satisfies me well. He’s good in bed. However, he admitted to me one night that he has always hated the idea of pleasuring himself and that he’s never masturbated in his life. <br><br>I found his answer strange and surprising. I’ve always believed that masturbating is a normal thing for males. <br><br>My boyfriend told me that even as a teenager - he never masturbated when puberty hit. He said he’s always hated the idea of it. <br><br>He also said that he doesn’t like watching porn. He said he’s never liked the idea of Erotica or a pornographic industry.<br><br>Is it common for guys to never masturbate at all? Should I be concerned if he has never masturbated? <br><br>Should I let it go? He satisfies me in bed and he’s a great boyfriend.

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