LPT: When just starting a relationship, avoid making plans that are too far in the future. It can be overwhelming for the other person, and it takes so much pressure off your relationship to just have everything be last minute.

It’s good for so many reason, and it prevents you from making compromises because you feel like you ‘have to’. We met by chance, started seeing each other just by chance, and still I don’t make plans with him more than 3 days in advance. <br><br>I’m not saying never make plans, just don’t make long lists of them.