My (30F) boyfriend (31M) keeps refusing to address his medical issues. How can I help him?

I’ve been in a relationship with my boyfriend for about 5 years. <br><br>He’s an amazing partner to me: in every way but one. <br><br>He has chronic depression and ADHD. He takes no medications for these problems and barely goes to his therapist. <br><br>This is not the problem. <br><br>The problem is that he has a REALLY bloated belly. He believes it could be a hernia, but the only time he’s gone to see a doctor about it was when I begged him. He didn’t listen to the doctor’s advice, and never even went back for a follow up. <br><br>Everytime I bring it up, he insists that he’s not in pain and it’s not a big deal. Honestly I think he’s scared of finding out what’s wrong with him. <br><br>I really really want him to get his belly checked out because I love him and I’m super scared he’s going to die. But he won’t, because he believes he can just will it away. <br><br>How can I make him go to the doctor? Or how should I approach this issue? I don’t usually mind the belly (I love his big belly). But I’m seriously so worried about his health. <br><br>This is just so frustrating because he’s otherwise an amazing person and I can’t imagine living without him. <br><br>What can I do to ensure he takes care of himself?