i dont even understand how normies dont see how fucking outdated the trad gender roles are

i cant even imagine doing it. the man brings home the food and money, the woman cooks and cleans for the man. i dont need a free maid why should i have to pay for one? also a chef? i am not going to be a chef for a woman either. i doubt many people understand how outdated trad gender roles are. thats why theyre trad. that makes sense right. also the trad gender norms are outdated. the trad gender norms are fixed in place and outdated. i hate this earth and the people on it. i wont explain what trad gender norms are because i'm positive you know what they are. i will just say that they are outdated. very very outdated. i dont see how normies dont see this. i think its because theyre too stupid and they dont even have to think about it. but i know so for that reason i hate them. i know normies are dumb but i think they have to see trad gender roles are outdated. how dont they see it?? i hate the fact that i dont have a choice as to whether or not i have to do chores. i hate the fact that i have to choose between being a slave my whole life, starving to death, or being lonely my whole life. trad gender norms dont even make sense. under the gender norms men have to go out and work and be lonely. women get to stay in the house and get a man to take care of them. all women have to do is cook and clean. they dont even have to do it for the man, they just have to do it to live. but they dont even have to do it all on their own. they have the man to take care of them. women even get a free house, food, and money. thats all they have to do is cook and clean and they dont even have to do it alone. i dont know how many times i have to repeat myself. trad gender roles make no sense. under gender norms for men we have to work a shitty job and make money to buy food and a place to live. we dont even have a place to cook food in. we have to find a house and pay for it with our own money. then we have to buy a stove or something to cook our food. then we have to go to a grocery store and buy the food to cook. we have to make the money to pay for the food and the house and the stove and the car to drive to the grocery store all on our own. we dont even have a car. we have to buy a car. we dont even know how to drive. we have to pay for driving school and we have to pay for the driving test. we dont even have a license to drive or an ID so we cant work. we have to pay for the ID and the license. we dont even know how to get a job. we have to pay for college so we can get a good job. all of this on our own. we dont have any help. then we have to find a wife to marry so we can have sex and we wont be lonely. we have to pay for a car and a house big enough for 2 people so we can get married. we have to pay for a wedding. we have to pay for a ring for our wife. it costing us thousands and thousands of dollars just to have a partner. it costing us thousands and thousands of dollars to live at all. thousands and thousands. then we have to pay thousands and thousands to get a wife. and thats all we get. we get a wife and maybe kids. that is all we get for our hard work and struggles in life. for all the shit we have to go through. all we get is a wife and some kids. thats it. thats all we get. we dont even get all this we have to pay thousands and thousands for it. then we have to work thousands and thousands of hours to pay for it all. so many hours. we have to pay thousands and thousands of dollars so many times and work so many hours so many times. that all we get is a wife and kids. i dont even want kids??? i dont even know how many times i have to repeat myself. i dont even want kids. why would i want to bring kids into this hell hole. why would i do that to a woman. why would i bring a kid into this. i dont think any kids should be born. i dont think i should be born. why should i have kids?? i dont even want a wife. i dont even want a partner. the only reason i want a wife is so i wont be lonely and i can have sex. thats it. the only reason i want a wife is so i wont be lonely and so i can have sex. it doesnt even make sense. why should i have to pay thousands and thousands of dollars and work so many hours to have sex?? why should i have to pay thousands and thousands of dollars and work so many hours just to not be lonely?? why should i have to pay thousands and thousands of dollars and work so many hours just to be able to experience pleasure??? why should i have to pay thousands and thousands of dollars and work so many hours just to find happiness?? why should i have to pay thousands and thousands of dollars and work so many hours just to not be sad?? why should i have to pay thousands and thousands of dollars and work so many hours just to have someone to talk to??? why should i have to pay thousands and thousands of dollars and work so many hours just to live??? why should i have to pay thousands and thousands of dollars and work so many hours just to survive??? also the woman can just cheat on me and leave me. thats it. all that hard work and struggle down the drain. for nothing. all i get is a wife and maybe kids. thats it. i dont even get a guarantee. i dont even get a promise. my only choices are to either work and pay thousands and thousands of dollars to barely have a life, or be lonely and starve to death. i can't even imagine living like that. i dont even have a choice as to whether or not i have a wife and kids. i have to either work hard and struggle or be lonely and starve to death. all i get is a wife and kids. thats it. what is the point of kids?? kids are so dumb. they dont even know anything. i dont even want to look at them. i dont even want to talk to them. i dont even want to see a kid. i hate kids. i hate kids for even existing. kids are the dumbest things on earth. kids are dumber than anything on earth. under trad gender norms women dont even have to do anything at all. they dont even have to have a job. they just have to make sure the kids are good and the house is clean. thats it. thats all they have to do. they dont even have to do it all on their own. all of their needs are taken care of. they dont even have to have a house or a car. it isnt their responsibility. the man is the one responsible for that. the man has to do everything. the woman just has to make sure the house is clean and the kids are good. thats all they have to do. they dont even have to take care of themselves. all the responsibilities of the woman are taken care of. they have the man to take care of all of that. they dont even have to cook. they just have to cook for the man. thats it. they dont have to do shit for themselves at all. they dont even have to go to school. i dont even understand how the trad gender norms dont make sense. it makes no sense. that is under trad gender norms for woman. all trad gender norms are outdated for both men and women. i dont even understand how anyone can accept them. how can anyone even think of trad gender norms as a good thing?? how can anyone even think trad gender norms are fair?? i dont even understand why anyone would think trad gender norms are fair. the man does all the work and has to take care of everything. under trad gender norms women dont even have to do anything they dont want to under the trad norms. they can just accept the man and not even have to do that. they dont even have to do anything. they dont even have to go to school. they dont even have to have a job. they dont even have to make money. they dont even have to take care of their house. they dont even have to make their own food. they dont even have to clean up after themselves. thats it. thats all they have to do under trad gender norms. cook, clean, and take care of kids. thats it. and they dont even have to do it all on their own. they have the man to take care of them. they dont even have to do it for themselves. makes no sense. and for men under trad gender norms men have to pretty much do everything. we have to work and make money and pay for everything. we dont even get a house. we have to buy a house. why do we have to do that. why do we have to pay for everything. why do we have to work and make money. why do we have to take care of everything. we dont even get a car. we have to buy the car. we have to pay for the car insurance. we have to pay for gas. we have to pay for maintenance. we have to pay for everything. why do we have to pay for everything. thats not fair. thats not right under trad gender norms men have to take care of everything. under trad gender norms women dont even have to do anything they dont want to. under trad gender norms women dont even have to do anything for themselves. everything is taken care of. thats it. thats all they have to do under trad gender