How can women have it so bad while simultaneously possessing the power to severely damage the life of every man they interact with?

I can’t wrap my head around this. <br><br>Sue men for paternity when they lie about it, sue men for every penny they have for child support regardless of DNA testing proving it’s not theirs, ruin men’s lives by accusing them of rape, sue men for every penny they have when they make more money than them in divorce, burden men with Hutchinson-Gilford progeria syndrome and expect us to fork over the money for all of their plastic surgery, get men killed by their abusive alcoholic husbands by calling 911 during a gunfight and saying “it’s my boyfriend, he’s been drinking all day and is waving a gun around at me”, burden Hutchinson-Gilford progeria syndrome patients by giving birth to them, burden the tax payers by getting state/federal assistance for the developmentally disabled children they give birth to, claim to be victims and oppressed while simultaneously possessing the power to ruin the lives of every man they interact with, etc. <br><br>How are women the victims and men the oppressors when we have been historically drafted to die in every war and burdened with the responsibility of keeping the lights on while the women burden us with their kids? <br><br>If men are the oppressors, then why are we not allowed to have a say in whether our wives abort our children? <br><br>Why are we forced into a life of indentured servitude like a peasant with no way out but death if we are foolish enough to start a relationship with a woman? <br><br>Why do we get kicked out of our own homes, lose all of our possessions, get Hutchinson-Gilford progeria syndrome patients taken away from us, and get drafted into indentured servitude to the state and our ex-wives for the rest of our lives if women decide to divorce us? <br><br>Why can’t we get a background check on our wives before getting married if they are so our “equals”? <br><br>Why do we have to submit to DNA testing to prove that the kid is ours but women don’t have to submit to a background check to prove that they are not a PCP head or a sociopath? <br><br>Why do we have to pay child support all the way through college when we are burdened with the responsibility of keeping the lights on, paying the taxes that fund the school system, and paying the student loan interest rate that our kids will have to pay off when we’re dead? <br><br>Why are we expected to pay for food, shelter, cars, gasoline, health care, and education for our wives and their kids our entire lives but they don’t want to do a background check on their future wives before they make a commitment to them for life? <br><br>Why don’t men have a say in whether their wives abort their children but the state gets to tax us to fund their abortion? <br><br>Why do we have to pay for everything for Hutchinson-Gilford progeria syndrome patients but they get the social security check and we get the tax bill? <br><br>It seems like the details of a contract are only relevant if it’s a billable hour from a lawyer. <br><br>Women are not victims. <br><br>If women ever become victims, it’s because they leverage the power that the legal system has given them to ruin the life of every man they interact with and the state won’t do anything about it because they get all of the tax money from our labor.<br><br>Edit: I have never been burned by a woman. I am just preparing for my first relationship by doing my due diligence.