My wife left me for a woman

Hello. I'm in absolute shambles at the moment and need an outlet to scream into. I've love my wife unconditionally. We met in high school when I was 15 and she was 14 (I know it's weird but it has worked fine for us). We got married right after I graduated high school, and promised to love each other through good and bad. We have done that, without any major issues. The only problem we've ever had that was a major issue was when her father passed away due to cancer. She was inconsolable, but I sat with her and allowed her to cry on my shoulder and tell me how she was feeling, and that gave her a huge help in working through her grieving. <br><br>I am not a polygamist, but do believe that love is love. So when my wife told me she was LGBTQ+, I promised to support her through her journey, even if it took her to other women. She never showed any inclination towards women, and I had no concerns about it. <br><br>However, about a month ago, I came home from work and caught her in bed with another woman. She was crying, and I didn't know what to do, so I just walked out. <br><br>I've been writing her letters. I told her that I loved her unconditionally, but that her decision to pursue this woman was something that I can't work past. I don't hate her for it, I just feel like this is a choice that she made on purpose. I also offered to let her continue living in the house, as it also holds a lot of happy memories, and I would like her to have something to hold onto during this difficult time. <br><br>I just need to talk to someone, as I've been writing these letters by myself. I am absolutely destroyed.