I finally told a fat girl I am attracted to her

I am a fat admirer, I’m not ashamed of it. Fat women are the most beautiful things to me. Big belly, big thighs, chubby cheeks. I get hard just thinking about it.<br><br>I know what some of you think about us. I’ve heard the worst and cringe at it. I am not a dirty old man. I am 26. I work as a freelance writer, so I have no problem providing for a partner and family if that happens. I am a feminist. I respect and love women and want them to feel empowered and not held back by societal expectations.<br><br>I have always loved fat women. It is not fetish for me. It is my strong preference. I have never been in a relationship with a thin girl. I only date plus sized women. I have been in 4 serious relationships in my life with chubby girls and a few casual hook ups here and there.<br><br>I am currently pursuing a new relationship with a plus sized woman at work, but that is for another post.<br><br>Still, I have never actively pursued a relationship with a fat girl I found attractive. I met them all at school, work, or through mutual friends. But I never, ever mustered the courage to walk up to a random woman who I found hot and tell her I was attracted to her.<br><br>Well, today that changed. It wasn’t planned.<br><br>I grabbed lunch at my favorite Chinese restaurant. The food is good and cheap and the staff is always friendly. There is one staff member in particular who takes my order and serves me when I go there. She is a big girl with brown curly hair and a big smile. She always greets me with a smile and asks how my day is going and we always have a few minutes of small talk before she takes my order. I have wanted to ask her out for a few weeks now, but I still have not.<br><br>When I walked in today, she greets me with her usual big smile. I take a seat at the bar and she comes over to take my order. But right as I am about to order, a man behind her yells out in anger.<br><br>“I don’t pay you to stand around all day and take orders! Get back to work.”<br><br>Then he slapped her across the face and raised his hand to slap her again.<br><br>I jumped from my seat and started to run over to the man. When I got to him, I immediately punched him in the face. He fell to the ground yelling in pain. The staff and some customers started screaming and a few men ran over to restrain him and some helped the girl up.<br><br>I stayed with her for a few minutes and comforted her, then walked the man outside and called the police for him. He was arrested for assault and the restaurant pressed charges.<br><br>When it was all over, the manager took me aside and told me that the girl wanted to speak with me. I agreed and they took me to a back room where she was. She hugged me and told me she really appreciated what I did for her. Then she looked at me with tears in her eyes and said, “I have a crush on you. I am so happy that you stuck up for me.”<br><br>I hugged her back and told her, “I have had a crush on you for a while now. I really think you are beautiful.”<br><br>She smiled and hugged me back. We talked for a bit, then she asked for my number. We made plans to go out on Friday night.<br><br>I am incredibly happy that I was able to stand up for her. I am never going to let someone treat a lady like that. I am also happy that I finally have the courage to pursue a relationship with a woman I am attracted to.<br><br>It is wrong to ever hit a woman. It is wrong to abuse and hurt someone for any reason. We should always respect each other and stand up for each other when someone else is being hurt or abused.