How to tell if a girl is into you without being an asshole

So, the thing about women is that they like being the pursuer and the man being the pursued. If you go in like a total weirdo or if you show up with the intent to seduce her, she's gonna run the other way.<br><br>It's just the way she's wired and that's not a problem or anything. However, you still want to know how to get her attention, so I've put together some tips and tricks.<br><br>**Tip #1: Be a gentleman**<br><br>Be respectful. Don't treat women like objects. You want her to be the one who's attracted to you, so don't act like you want to rape her or anything. Women like a man with manners and good etiquette. Be polite, don't be a rude asshole and you'll be more likely to get her attention.<br><br>**Tip #2: Be confident**<br><br>Women are attracted to confident men. It doesn't mean you have to be a total narcissist and an arrogant prick, it means you have to be self-assured. She's gonna notice if you don't think much of yourself and that's gonna turn her off, so build your self confidence up.<br><br>**Tip #3: Don't be creepy**<br><br>Don't be a stalker or anything, don't show up where she's working or studying all the time. Give her space, she's gonna appreciate that and it's gonna make her want to get closer to you.<br><br>**Tip #4: Be a good friend first**<br><br>Women like men who are friends with benefits first. Don't act like a total weirdo who only cares about getting laid. Be a friend first, and she'll be more likely to want to have sex with you.<br><br>**Tip #5: Body language**<br><br>You don't have to be a total genius to notice when a woman's body language is giving her away. If she leans in close when she talks to you, she's attracted to you. If she touches your arm or your shoulder, she's attracted to you. If she's looking at you and not looking away, she's attracted to you.<br><br>**Tip #6: Don't chase her**<br><br>Don't chase her, she's not a dog who likes being chased by the mailman. Let her chase you. Don't ask her out, wait for her to ask you out.<br><br>**Tip #7: Be patient**<br><br>Women like men who are patient. Don't be like a total weirdo who's gonna rape her if he doesn't get laid by tomorrow. Take your time, be patient, and she'll appreciate that.<br><br>**Tip #8: Be authentic**<br><br>Be yourself, don't pretend to be someone you're not. If you try too hard to impress her, you're gonna come across as fake and she's gonna run the other way. Be authentic, be genuine, and you'll be more likely to get her attention.<br><br>So, there you have it, men. These are the tips and tricks to tell if a woman is into you without being an asshole. Good luck.