My husband admitted to me that he is not okay with my last boyfriend becoming a gynecologist.

I am 35, my husband is 41 and we have 2 kids. We have been together for 10 years and married for 8. My relationship with my husband (H) is great. We are happy, we have been able to communicate about anything, we are good friends. There has never been any red flags. <br><br>H is a great husband and father. I never had any reason to doubt him. I trust him completely. <br><br>Today H came home from work and he wasn't alright. He was frustrated and silent. After he calmed down a little bit, he showed me a picture on his phone. I took a look and it was a picture of a gynecologist office. The doctor there was my ex boyfriend (M). He was my boyfriend for 3 years while I was in college. We broke up 10 years ago. <br><br>I was flustered and I couldn't believe it. How on earth did my husband see my ex bf's office and what the hell does it have anything with him? <br><br>Then he calmed down a little bit and told me the story. He was at a meeting with his co-workers and some of the employees from another department were there too. Things were going well and H was getting along with them really well. <br><br>One of them warned him and told him to be careful because her sister was his ex gf, and she knows it. H didn't get it because he didn't know her sister. She didn't want to tell him her name but H was curious and wanted to know more, and she told him that her sister's name is \[My name\]. The woman asked H if he was my husband and he said yes. Then she told him that her sister was his wife and she was sure that they both were in a relationship around 2009-2012. H didn't say anything and he just smiled. <br><br>After the meeting the woman sent the picture of the clinic to him and the profile of his ex bf in linkedin. He was really sure that it was me. H told me everything and I confirmed that it was my ex bf and he was my boyfriend 10+ years ago. <br><br>I asked H why he was so quiet, frustrated and upset. He told me that he was shocked and needed time to understand what was going on. I asked if he was okay and he wasn't. <br><br>Then he finally told me that he wasn't okay with the fact that my ex boyfriend was a gynecologist. <br><br>He told me that he couldn't control himself and he took the pill and he was going to get a vasectomy. <br><br>He told me that he wasn't okay with one of my ex bfs doing annual check ups on me and he couldn't bear the thought that my ex was going to see me naked and look at my vagina. <br><br>H told me that he doesn't care if it's a professional relationship or not, he wasn't okay with the situation and he wanted me to go to another doctor and he was okay if he paid for me to go to a private clinic or anything like that. He would do anything just to make sure that my ex bf wasn't going to do checks on me.<br><br>He told me that he didn't want to put pressure on me, but he told me that even if I didn't care about the situation, he (H) wasn't okay with it and that's all what mattered. <br><br>Then he told me to please go to another doctor and he told me that if he found out that I went to my ex again, he was going to break up with me. <br><br>I told him that I never went to my ex boyfriend's office. My gynecologist is a woman and I have been going to her for 5 years. I go to check ups every year and I am happy with my doctor. <br><br>H was relieved and told me that he was just stressed and he couldn't control himself and he was so worried about the situation. He did all of this because he wasn't okay with my ex bf being my doctor. <br><br>Then he confessed that when he was stressed and frustrated, he took the pill. <br><br>I was surprised and asked what pill? He told me the pill for erectile dysfunction. I asked him what for and he told me that he wanted to have sex with me and he wanted to "mark me" and wanted to make sure that he "came inside of me" and wanted to "impregnate me" and he wanted me to stop going to my ex bf's office for good.<br><br>I was surprised but at the same time I was excited and horny. I was a little bit upset and flustered because my husband took a pill and wanted to "mark" me, but it also turned me on and I wanted it. <br><br>We had sex and I wanted to give my husband what he wanted. I gave him what he wanted. I didn't use any protection and wanted H to "come inside of me". I was happy to give my husband what he wanted and I never say no to sex. <br><br>After we had sex, I told H that I never went to my ex bf's office and my gynecologist was a woman. H was relieved that I never went to my ex's office and he told me that I never have to go there. <br><br>Now we are okay and we are both calm. My husband is okay now. I just hope that I don't get pregnant because of the pill that H took...<br><br>Edit: I use birth control and I take the pill. H took another pill which is for erectile dysfunction and it's calledpriligf. The combination of them both and the fact that I wanted to get pregnant increased my chances to conceive.